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I met this girl in the University. She is a bit shy person but I was attracted by her beauty the first time I met her around. She was eating her lunch alone and so I approached her to be friends. She was very kind and I did not expect it was the start of our closeness together.

Other than that, I find her hardworking person and smart and even has a nice voice to hear.
The only thing I maybe did not like about her is she is too shy but she is damn loyal and has a good heart.

I fell in love with her and started to ask her out to be my girlfriend. She was crying and even hugged and say yes. I took her out to real dates and even make her very happy every second I am with her. After six months of our relationship, I was asking to sleep with her but she said she is not yet ready and felt embarrassed. I asked her if she was still a virgin and she said “she is not anymore “ she had sex once to his secret boyfriend one year ago , he did not have chance to introduce him to her family because of strictness. And she thought that ex boyfriend she had was serious but he was only after her virginity.

i don’t know how I feel after that confession, I love her but she is not virgin anymore. Should I take this girl seriously or even considering her marrying? Or not.

(Please vote below and have your comments )

So personally I'm for revisions to one part of rode v wade and that's the clause that states that a woman can get an abortion without their spouses knowledge. Why?

Well run through this hypothetical with me.

Say you got a couple, they get along smashingly, the man really wants a child and raise a family, the girl however doesn't want a child for some reason or another and gets pregnant, she wants to get an abortion but knows the relationship is as good as over if she tells her boyfriend so she gets one in secret with the guy completely oblivious about it.

So the woman's happy relationship is preserved while the guy is stuck living a lie.

What I'm saying here is if you want to get an abortion then fine, but the least you could do is not make it legal for a man to be left completely in the dark so he doesn't even get the option to leave.

And there's also the whole rubbing the abortion in the guys face just to spite him in case it falls apart for any other reason.

But maybe I'm in the wrong here, what do you think is it ok to keep your spouce in the dark about something significant like this just to salvage your own happiness?

Also I shouldn't have to say this, but this is under the assumption that you LIKE the person you are dating.