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I have observed that women in general are much more rude to male strangers than vice versa. In certain scenarios that might be warranted say if a woman was walking alone on a dark street. But in other common public in public and completely safe place women act rude for the hello of it. Unless of course if they think the guy is cute they are not surprisingly more friendly. But if he is just average or unattractive guy they act rude to varying degree (anywhere from giving a “you creep” glance all the way up saying something nasty).

I have plenty if incidents where just being in proximity or just say hello with no sexual context I’ve had women be rude. But I remember one incident when I was 23. I was walking down the street in a popular part of a college town. A blonde 19 yr old walked up to me on the street out of nowhere. She then ask me “hey do you know so and so is”. The name sounded familiar but it didn’t click right away. But thinking it might be a positive flirty sign by auto response I just said “ah yeah”. She then said “you look just like him” with a cunt look and walked off.

I then immediately realized who she was talking about and it was a very nasty insult. I wish it was legal to punch her in the face after that. But that little cunt knows the whole world was on her side.

I know people can be dbags but can you see a guy walking up to a random girl:young woman and saying something like that in broad daylight? Maybe if he some crazy sketched out homeless guy but otherwise hell no.

Not trying to toot my own horn here. Like I am the type who is definitely not conventionally attractive. I am not masculine, don't even have all my hair, can't grow facial hair, and skinny. i am not tall either 5'8. It doesn't happen a lot, but every once in a while I'll get asked out my a woman who is at best an acquaintance. It's rare but I've been flat out asked out by female strangers. I have a bad level of honesty as well to the point I have even self sabotaged potential relationships by criticizing and lets just say not marketing myself well. Yet some of these women still want to pursuit me even after all of that. My only good flaw is that I have hard work ethic. That's it and most of these women don't know that. So I just don't know what they see in me. Some are below attractive and some are so incredibly attractive and due to my stupid low confidence and honest nature I tell them they can do better than me. Because I know they can. It takes along time for me to open up and show my uncommon funny side that you people get to see but only cause we are on the internet.