Search Results: like skinny or big girls

And by big i dont mean fat , i mean a guy who has more meat on than a regular skinny guy.

There's this really cute girl that seems to like me. We haven't talked but I am 90% certain she likes my appearance. Like she is very nervous when I am around and stares at me for seconds until I look at her. Now the thing is that I don't believe she can like me. I am only below average in height (5'9'') and skinny and my face was rated 5.5/10 on lookism. net, while she has a really cute face and a very hot body (slim waist, wide hips, big breasts, petite). I had girls in classes stare at me but they were not as attractive as this girl. She is also smarter than me so I feel like shit. There are lots of guys who flirt with her but I am still sure she likes my appearance because no way a girl would stare at me for so long. Usually I am like invisible to girls.

You guys might tell me to stop being an idiot and just approach her but I have never had any interactions with girls so I am afraid she will be turned off when I talk to her because I am very shy when it comes to girls. Now at least she believes I am confident because I am very confident with other guys and have a pretty deep voice.

So should I try getting to know her or continue looksmaxing and become hot?

I am only 5'9'' and around 140-145 lbs. I am not too weak for my size (I can do 10-15 pullups) and I am physically fit, but since I am so small and pathetic, I am weak compared to tall big guys. I feel like that's the reason girls don't like me. Those few girls who liked me were very petite (short and skinny), so I think I am only left with a very small percentage of girls who would agree to date me. That was a few years ago, now most girls and guys are bigger and I am too small.

For most girls I am the size of a child and not a real man. I wish I could work out a lot and become muscular, but I don't have time for this because of my studies.

So should I just forget about girls since I won't get any?

And before you say to just lower my standards and date a fat girl, I would say that it's just a myth that they like skinny guys or that they are easy. If that was true I would happily take a fat girl and would not complain here. But they are only attracted to either guys who are fat like them or guys who are fit.