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So my boyfriend and I had a funny thought about weddings.

My boyfriend and I were watching Bridezillas (he hates it, but it's my guilty pleasure), and we were already talking about our wedding. Plans are to be engaged after a year (so September), but he kept saying that it would be fun for me to plan it and pick everything, but just run it past him. Then I told him it was our wedding so he should help, and he agreed. But I told him that he didn't really see it as 'his' because he doesn't want to participate. He just wants to reserve the right to say 'no'. And I told him most guys are like that. They get pissy about the 'my wedding' attitude brides have, but most guys don't actually help plan anything. The woman does, and the man is along for the ride to say yes or no. But they don't have an opinion on anything. They want it picked out for them and presented to them so they can approve or deny it.

He sat there for a moment, laughed, and eventually admitted I was right. He doesn't really want to look at flowers or go to cake tastings or pick out silverware. He just wants to try the food and pick the venue with me, but do nothing else. But he wants to have an opinion. So basically I go out and find everything, present it to him, and he can say yes or no. He has 3 brothers, all have been married, and they were like that. My sister's husband was like that. My dad was like that. He was in 3 friend's wedding, and he said every one of his friends were like that.

Guys, why are you like this when it comes to weddings? OR are you?

to me, Im not pretty, just average, slim, small boobs, quite big butt, I wore modest clothes and virgin. most women hates me with my face and my body. I don't understand that. guys giving hint to wait until I approach them. in fact I'm extremely shy. I unable to look at guy's face much and even talk to them. which result made me being single and never had any boyfriend yet. when I made some guy friends, they would try to be since they aren't single. and people around would assume that I'm dating with my male friends. this would make awkward and they started to stopped talking to me when people did this to me. I'm straight. I feel sad for being lonely. and I ever sext with some guys a few time. especially when I have problems.

at home, mom and I are completely different. when she was young, she was a wild woman. guys kept running into her. so having a daughter like made her and stressed out because I'm single. she often insult me for being single. and keep saying that I should not scream, yell, angry at my brothers. while my brothers kept being rude to me and never wanted to do chores. my parents and my siblings making me into a maid. today's when I woke up late and I asked my brother to clean the bed, my mom kept backing him up, by saying he did some chores and and studying right now. in fact he was gaming. when I told her all that, she just doesn't believe what I say and slapped me many times. she told me that I should not be rude. and insulting me while saying that no man would like me for being like this.

I'm the only daughter in this family. my aunt kept saying that my family should treat me better. but why my own family doing this to me?