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i didn't even notice the first time i saw the pic it was just him out and about in the daytime, but when i zoomed in there's a girl in a nice dress next to him cropped out of the picture. i can't help but feel he's cheating or living a double life, but then the other part of me thinks the other girl is a stranger or not that important because theyre not facing each other in the picture or anything... like theyre not touching or holding hands just standing real close to each other posing for the picture... what do i do?

I know the easiest thing that I could do is to delete it but instagram is what everyone uses. Before I didn't have one and I felt lost and confused since everyone else was connected on there. I finally got one and ended up getting 23 followers from following people. What makes me sad is the fact that your follower ratio and amount of followers and likes kinda determines your popularness in the real world and online (how much people like you). At first I didn't care and I didn't use instagram a lot anyway but now I do after realizing a few things and getting certain comments. One thing that happend is that my friend that I grew up with unfollowed me on everything because I wasn't as popular as her (i guess I ruined her image?) another thing is that my crush didn't follow me back even though I would talk to him on kik and he followed strangers (but those were mostly hot teenagers). When I finally commented on one of his pictures he chose that moment to embaress me (I felt so inferior then and still do now and I kept over thinking that to the point where I cried in school today). My friend also noticed the amount of followers that I had and said "you think you're so cool but you only have 23 followers when I have 10,000" she meant that in a teasing way though but it still stung. I'm also not that popular in school and sometimes I'm by myself or sit at lunch by myself. I only have 6 people that I can call a friend at this school, but they all have other friends that they talk to more then me, I'm usually that person that is awkwardly standi ng near a group of people since I'm not friends with anyone but one person (who didn't introduce me btw). I also have so much time on my hands that it saddens me (as in no one wanting to hang out). At my old school I had really close friends but I moved and one of them thinks that she's too popular for us. I overthinked all of this during the day and it made me realize how lame I was.

Some girlfriends on Facebook have at least some acknowledgement or some sort of inkling that she exists as a girlfriend oh their boyfriends' Facebook profiles. I know it's just Facebook, and not real life. He doesn't even let me tag him on Facebook because he has his privacy settings flagged so the pictures don't show up on his wall. Sometimes I just feel sad that I don't even have my name on his profile. I don't want to bring it up because it might be another fight that I don't want to fight about. I just wonder. When I asked him about it, he said Facebook doesn't matter.

On the otherhand, I've met all of his friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances. He introduced me as his girlfriend to those people, and strangers alike. He's very re-assuring that he wants to have me as his long-term partner.

What do you think?

I met a guy from my area online week before last week. Monday we hung out in his dorm watched a movie talked a little then we just made out. I was on an awkward angle so I ended up just straddling him. Which I think sent the wrong message. Things got really heated and clothing started to come off. Before long he was taking my underwear off and pulling his down. I was kinda shocked at his confidence as this was his first time getting even remotely this close to sex. I wanted to and we did.

The next day we hung out and did it again. But this time I felt bad, guilty even.. I felt like I was being used for sex. He walked me to course which was making me worry more because he wasn't trying to hold my hand. At times it must've seemed like we were complete strangers.

I talked to him about everything and how I was feeling and how him asking if we were a thing made me feel like shit. He told me how he didn't want to scare me away and that we can take a break from sex go on a real date.
Which is What we did yesterday. He took me on a picnic at the botanic gardens. It was very cute. (By this time we had decided that not having sex was going to be impossible) so we went back to his after we had stuffed our faces and began making out. We had sex twice because we said we wanted it to be a romantic evening but the first time we got caught up in the heat of the moment and went quite rough. But the second time was very romantic.

We talked and sung and had a tickle fight after. (Well he tickled me) and I stole one of his shirts. He held my hand and kissed me in public even though he's not keen on pda.
I still feel wrong about the sex because of the fact I don't love him. But I know one day when I do it will make the sex that much better.

Plus keeping in mind he was a virgin before meeting me, but he has gotten me the closest to climaxing than my previous partner. Plus now that is all he wants out of sex for me to enjoy it and get off from it.

Giving the circumstances do you think it'll last?