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I want to be as specific as possible so you can get the full picture of my situation.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months exactly. We see eachother every day. We spend nearly every second of our free time together except when... It's time to go to bed. He tells me he loves me. I want to believe he does. But he has only stayed the night with me twice. Often, most of the time more than once a week, he will even book an extravagant, expensive hotel room... just hang out with me there, sex, hang out some more, drink etc , then leave. Sometimes he is so drunk he can barely walk and he would still rather go home! It is very important for a man to sleep with me, to hold me, make me feel safe, secure and comfortable... I don't understand how a man can be comfortable having sex with me, going down on me etc but not sleeping me. It's very hurtful, and I feel like it's something about me. Like, maybe he doesn't want to be attached to me. Like a psychological issue where he may see this as a larger commitment. Or maybe he is scared it will become a habit. I DON'T KNOW. I am an attractive, slender, 21 year old woman... I can't see why he wouldn't want to sleep with me. Every morning when I wake up I just roll my eyes into the back of my head like... what the hell am I doing? I have never thought that this would ever be any sort of issue.
I have confronted him many times. Told him that this isn't going to work if this carries on. I have told him that it is important to me. It's just like he doesn't care. I've never even been inside or outside of his apartment. But I know he doesn't have a girlfriend bc he's ALWAYS with me.

When I told him last night that I needed an answer right then and there why he won't sleep with me, he said, "The last girl that I slept with was my ex of 7 years"... Which ended about 5 years. (he is 28) I DO KNOW for a FACT that this is a LIE bc he told me about another realationship that he was in for one year and they lived together after 6 months. I confronted him on the lie... he stuck by his lie saying that I had gotten confused (HA I had not) and I didn't say another word bc I didn't want to argue. He doesn't pee the bed, doesn't pass gas while sleeping... so it can't be that. he's not a snorer... Does any one have any input on why this is? And dont say it might be a clingy booty call bc its not like that. I just need to know if I should just leave. What's the deal here guys, really?

I have been in a relationship ship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Now he is 14 years older then me but it wasn't until last year you could tell. We used to habe sex all the time every day. But about 6 months into our relationship he would tell me I want it to much. We did still habe sex even if twice a week however During the winter months he coachs and is really stressed and busy along with being tired so our time doesn't exist. But in November he got sick which led to the virus going to his heart finally in February he was in the hospital for heart problems but released and undergoing cardio care since. Everyday he is getting better and being told by the cardio Dr just how much progress he has made and how he can live his life however when it comes to sex it doesn't exist and hasn't for almost 7 months because of everything and doesn't even come up.. even though for me I was always the more sexual person and I crave sex multiple times a day everyday and have been told by him before it's on my mind to much its been hard for me but I have adapted and I understand with the fears from the recent health issues etc but for me just going out on a date and not getting a compliment or him even truly looking at me like he wants me, or even when just a simple kiss doesn't exist it's just a peck and hugs don't exist to laying in bed he doesn't touch me and I don't mean dirty but just truly touch me I don't know how to feel. I hurt... physically, emotionally, and mentally. I talk to him but he doesn't want to hear it... tonight I explained I had a lot on my mind and am hurting and his response is oh here we go and he rolls over to go to sleep. I feel such a detachment in every way yet I am so in live with him. Am I losing it? I love this man with my whole heart but I hurt and I know he's going through a lot but I'm there every step of the way, every appt. And feel all I ask for is to see the love he says he has for me. I fell horrible and that maybe I'm being selfish. But I