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So recently I just got out of a 3 year relationship, since then I have been taking care of myself and learning to love myself before I attempted to love someone else again. I'm still young so there is still a lot to learn and expirence. I don't know much about love other than I always find some way to fuck it up. So I need advice on which one of these guys sound like the better pick. Be honest!
Josh; Josh is one of those bad boy types but he has a sweet side as well. We get along better than anyone, we're like peas and carrots... When we're together it's like everything is going to be okay. We've been talking about moving to Florida in October for college and to me it doesn't sound like that bad of an idea. Living with him would be heaven. He's already graudated from school, he's 19 and his body is oh so perfect. My Mom grew up with his father and she absolutely adores him. Sometimes I feel like all he does is get what he needs out of me and then he bounces. I pay his phone bill, give him a place to stay, and give him whatever he needs including sex. Oh, did I mention? He has a girlfriend.
Rick; Rick is the sweetest man you'll ever meet. He recently went through a lot and attempted suicide with a gun, when he got out of the hospital he started a relationship with a beautiful girl named Amanda (who he is currently still with) He has always been there for me and genuinly cares about me. We have always had a crush on each other and have always got along. He is a hott ass country boy with BAD habits and a big truck (that he lets me drive) He has never disrespected me and is all around an amazing person. He's had a hard past but he is working through it. I haven't had sex with Rick because I am sexually active with Josh and I couldn't allow myself to have sex with two different guys. I know in the long run Rick is the right one but did I mention? He has a baby on the way...

I was tardy to one of my classes for the 3rd time. The teacher said, "Emily you are tardy" and she marked me as tardy. This other girl asked, "how many tardies have you had this 9 weeks, in this class". I said, "this one is my 3rd one". She said, "cool, that means you will be getting 90 minutes of detention". I said softly "fuck". She said "yep, you can choose two lunch detentions --45 minutes each or a 90 minutes after school detention, which your pareents have to sign the detention slip". I said, "okay, are you sure about this". She said, "yes, I got my 3rd tardy for one of my classes, last week, and got 90 minutes of detention, which I did during lunch".

I'm headed off to college next year and I thought I wanted to swim. I've been on the swim team for two years at my high school. I am pretty decent at it and I enjoyed it but it was never something I was excited about doing. I always felt out of place, like I didn't beling on the team. Recently at my colleges accepted students day i signed up for club cheerleading. I have always wanted to be a cheerleader but never had the guts to tryout in high school. Since it is a club, there are no cuts and I would make the team even without having experience. I would love to do both but both main seasons are during the same season. which do you think i should do? Other details: I will be a CSD major which is a very rigorous major with a heavy course load. Would a club be easier than an established sport in that sense?