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Seeing this guy the last few weeks, sleeping together, felt like there was a future. Found out he was on a dating site still and talking to other women. Past two days we have been fighting non stop about. Personally for me I think if you like someone you just don't talk to others realtionship or not. Why would anyone put themselves in a poistion of many. That is just my opinion other people are obviously different.

We both agreed we were stupid not to discuss what we both wanted, we did just assume.

He really lost his temper with me and shouted that it wasn't like he was having sex with them. That I was the only person he was sleeping with and dating. For the time being he is not giving up talking to other women if we were to get serious and it started progressing then he wouldn't be even on the site or talking to anyone. He kept telling me I was overreacting and if I kept it up accusing him of sleeping with other girls I would be getting blanked. I told him goodbye after that. Then he sent me a message saying that I was a really great girl and he never set out to hurt or upset me. He was sorry for never talking about where we were going. He really didn't think after a few weeks id be upset that he was still talking to others.

Maybe because I don't talk to multiple people or date them I just can't understand it. I'm am really sad about it we were really good together. And I wasn't looking for any kind of realtionship so soon I just wanted to keep dating I just presumed there would be no others involved.

What would you have done in this situation? Should I have kept on dating him and told him in another month if we can't be in a serious relationship then that's it.

I don't know how people do it, I'm probably weird in thinking it. Even if I'm just dating someone, I'm not automatically looking for a realtionship but I think if you're dating more than one you're not really giving you're full attention to the other person. I find it hard enough to really like one person that I would consider dating let alone a bunch. I have one friend who is seeing three and she can barely keep the stories right and they don't know about each other.

So how do people do it? I don't see the point.

Its been two years of my not being in the right place or anything... So i don't want to put it off any longer. Im going to tell him how i feel.

So I have been in love with him for two years (idk if ill actually say that to him. I kept things from happening but Im ready to try being together now. He's in or he's out. Either way its his right to want what he wants r not want what he does not want. I will not hold his decision against him. I just want things to be clear, and i want him to be honest. I want us to try being together, or we decide to just be friends. Nothing in between because I do not do ambiguity.

one thing. If he says he can not make it but does not give an alternate date or explanation, or he vaguely says some other time, Do I move on?

Also can you be together and go slow? I have never been in a relationship. Its awkward wanting to be with someone when you are not sure how to be with someone. Normally I'd wait but its been so long i think it'd just make things super awkward by the time we got together. I think its time to sink or swim I dint even know if we'd work together, so whats the point in waiting to find out. Why not just find out.

At this point if i wait then id have to see other people -because i want that experience while i'm still young- and i don't think i want to date multiples.