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Hey, I'm 17 years old and a junior in high school. I am on the lacrosse team and I have had a thing for my coach since I started attending the school. He and I have a very close relationship and I wonder if he feels the same way. He's very touchy (not in like a weird way), i will like show him something on my phone and he always feels the need to touch my entire hand unncessarily for a little while he is looking at a picture on my phone or something and he is always trying to make me laugh and impress me. Whenever he is telling a story to the entire team he is only making eye contact with me as if I am the only one there. He likes to joke around with me a lot and sort of make fun of like my music taste and stuff but its so cute and funny when he does it. He has called me pretty before and he gives compliments about my achievements a lot. He also doesn't work at the school, he is just a coach and sometimes he will show up to my lunch when he has like no reason to be there. Considering that he is my coach, I wouldn't want to risk him losing his job so I don't do anything about it, also he is a good Christian guy and im a good christian girl and we wouldn't do anything anyways. I keep it very lowkey like one time we were riding in this golf cart together when we were on this school's campus and i squeezed right next to him and our legs were touching the entire ride. i know its so lame but its a big deal for me since we can't do anything. I really feel like the feeling is mutual but i dont know, do all guys act like this?
Is it normal to be attracted to a 17 year old girl as a 26 year old? If he is attracted to me, do you think he is ashamed of it? Do you all think that he is into me?

Okay so I have a huge crush on this guy, and well I have liked him for a long time. And I'm pretty sure he likes me, well anyways my so called friend decides to...

talk to him, and she sent me a screenshot of their messages I was bothered by it and I told her and she promised me that she didn't like him and it wasn't like that.

The next day, I messaged her and asked her to nicely stop texting him because he could end up liking her because the more you talk to someone the more you become interested in them. And she was getting mad and becoming rude.

She said it's not her fault if he ends up liking her. And I asked her again and she finally agreed. Then I thanked her.

And I told her it was alright if she talked to him every once in awhile but not EVERYDAY like she was. And then she said "Quit being controlling. And I am going to talk to him as usual." (So basically everyday) because I don't need other girls getting in the way. (And I have trust issues with girls because girls can take the guy you like faster than you can say the word BUTTERSCOTCH)

And she comes to school today and starts telling people about it and she doesn't even tell them the full story! She only told them what I asked her to do. And now people are calling me names and saying that I am controlling & annoying.

And I found out that she also sends screenshots of her & my crushes messages and sends them to people and she makes fun of him and she calls him a dork.

who is wrong in this situation? Me or my friend?