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Say a couple is in marriage counseling on the brink of divorce. The counselor ask them both to confess their secrets to the other that will decide whether they want to continue the marriage or not. They both are bad are secrets but one by one they confess. The husband goes first. He confesses that he had been having an affair for the with his secretary for the past 5 years and that he loves her. But he loves you as well and wants to work out with you.

The wife confesses that for the past 10 years since you both have been trying to have a baby since the husband really want to start a family, she confesses she had gotten pregnant 3 times and had aborted all 3 pregnancies without the husband knowing that she didn't want kids or to start a family. She didn't know how to tell him she didn't want kids.

Which secret is worse?

Okay starting off. I know I'm a homewrecker and a horrible person and all the other things you have to say. I don't care and won't care. I've been having an affair with a married man and I've made a mistake a caught feelings for him. At first it was just sex and I knew I would be the side chick and I was okay with that. But now things have changed. Instead of telling me to "fuck him" he says "make love to me" he chooses coming over to hang with me instead of going out with his wife (we don't have sex every time he comes over like we used to, we make dinner together and cuddle on the couch and watch movies) he says things like "i wish I would have met you before I met her" I know that I should break things off but its so hard because I think I've fallen for him. How should I break things off? Just do it then break off communication or tell him I've caught feelings and that's why I have to end it?