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Is he just shy and taking things slow?

I started talking to this guy on OKCupid mid-February and we spent a great deal of time messaging one another (I'm 22 and he's 25). We met for the first time last week at the zoo (my idea). When we first saw each other, I...
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Why am I attracting so many guys, without even trying? Please help, I am so confused?

This is NOT to brag, I actually am just really confused, and do not know how to change my behaviour (even though I do not know what I should change) Okay, so the deal is, that I in some strange way am attracting guys all...
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The up and downsides of a friendship with the opposite gender

I’ve gained a lot of male friends the last couple of years, some of which became my best friends. And I can’t even imagine my future without these guys, they are simply amazing and I always have a blast hanging out with...
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Why do I feel lost with my relationship?

I've been friend with a guy 2-3 years before we started to date. He's outgoing and I'm a shy person. I've learned to communicate my emotion. When we started to date, he moved to another city to start a new job. It was...
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What should I do? Should I pick? How to earn more time to decide what to do?

Ok so last summer I had met this guy, who has really impressed me with his humor but his maturity as well (note: I have no idea how he felt for me back then, he didn't show me something more than casualty) . We had only...
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Why isn't it okay to not like shyness?

Guys have no issue saying that they're only attracted to fit girls and stuff, but every time I tell a guy friend that I'm not into some shy guy crushing on me, they all tell me I'm shallow. I noticed a lot too that there...
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I have very little dating experience and have no idea how to "deal" with the guy im seeing/talking to?

I have very little dating experience and February this year was the first time i dated/talked to a guy over a long period of time (about 3 months, before i realised we had nothing in common). This guy was very out...
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Things guys hate about being guys

I'm a girl who got some help from really kind guys. This is what they said: 10.  Jail It's easier for a guy to end up behind bars. Girls go to jail too, but let's be honest, jails are full of testosterone. (I know girls...
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How to make a third date go well (when the guy is a quiet person)?

I want to ask this guy out on a third date. He's a very quiet guy with a soft voice. He's not the type to take initiative with girls. I'm used to guys who are more outgoing and know how to pull the moves, so he's left me...
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Guys, biggest reason why a guy might not ask his crush out?

I'm pretty sure this guy at work has had an interest in me for about 2 years now (crazy, right?), but he never yet approached me about it. He stares at me all the time and shows all the signs of interest in me. He is also...
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I'm pretty sure this guy at work has had an interest in me for about 2 years now (crazy, right?), but he never yet approached me about it. He stares at me all the time and shows all Show More
Afraid of rejection/too shy
Waiting for the 'right moment'
Doesn't know her well enough
Too big of an age gap
Not ready for a relationship
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Scared to have first boyfriend?

Hi, I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss or anything like that. I'm a shy kinda person and I don't know it just never happened.  I've liked this guy for like 3 years now though, I have an extreme crush on...
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Girls, Girls if a guy is really good to you but her is a virgin would that be a deal breaker for you?

I am a virgin at 24 because I have always been a little shy with women. I have been told that if I treat a girl good she would not care if i'm a virgin.  So for you if a guy is really good to you but he is a virgin would...
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I am a virgin at 24 because I have always been a little shy with women. I have been told that if I treat a girl good she would not care if i'm a virgin.  So for you if a guy is really Show More
Eww I don't do virgin losers.
I would not think less of the guy but a relationship would not work.
I would not care one way or another.
I would be glad he was a virgin.
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I am really confused and scared about this situation... I wish I never did it?

Basically I  am a Guy who believed in dating a girl and forming a relationship so we can marry one day.  I always felt that casual sex was not something I would ever do.  Being quiet throughout school , I still used to...
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What to do after looking needy? I feel so stupid?

I feel so stupid , never done this with any girl  she ignored me 3 times , 1st one she was scared to get hurt , 2nd she was playing she gave me her number i called her she reject (she is shy )  now back to ignore me again...
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Guys, what is your opinion on shy and awkward girls? Any tips to avoid shyness around guys?

Hey, I would consider myself to be an approachable and friendly girl but I've struggled with social anxiety for as long as I can remember. My social anxiety has diminished slightly over the years, but sometimes in social...
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Girls, any suggestions on how to look cuter?

I might talk to my crush tomorrow (I'm super shy so it's a big deal for me lol) and I know you guys said I'm I'm cute. But out of 10 how cute am I, and do you have any suggestions on how to be cuter besieges to smile?...
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A Detailed Question About whether or not asking this girl out with some specific conditions. The details are on the below. Please check it out?

So here is the deal. I am friends with this girl and she already might have heard from her friends about me liking her. We still hang out and do goofy things and for example; we were playing a game and a friend of mine...
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Would a man give his phone number if not interested?

I'm a shy lady who likes a shy guyfriend. We've known each other for 1 year and 6 months. I've had a crush on him nearly this whole time and I think he likes me too. I was the 1st to make the move and give him my phone #...
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Guys, What the heck is he thinking?

My best guy friend clearly likes me and I like him too. Thing is he's shy with girls. Otherwise he acts outrageous and is absolutely hilarious. I've known him for 2 months now. I transferred in, and we immediately became...
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