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A question that has always kinda interested me, A lot of guys will tell you that girls want a jerk, a guy who doesn't care about them, others will tell that no that is far from the truth and you can always be kind a get girls , not nice but kind, as in a person who genuinley wants good and is not faking it to reach his goal... dont get mr wrong though iam not saying weak or doesn't stand up for himself iam saying, kind and good.

I had 2 gfs, both cute, both very nice (well the second kinda hot and cold but she was still nice ) and i absolutly adored that quality about them, they were laid back like me and really nice and kind... and they chose to date me... girls usually fine me very good looking and are not shy about it but iam far from a bad boy even though i look like one and can act like one if iam super pissed (uncommon though) , i think twice before doing something cause i understand that sometimes people are going through a rough day/week and they aren't being as*holes just cause... even when my ex whom i truly had strong feelings for decided to end things, i was cool and nice about it and wished her good luck and assured her that its all good and its not always meant to be.

sometimes i doubt myself and wonder why i do what i do, other times iam genuinly satisfied with how i react to such issues, how iam extremely loyal and faithful ( i dont even hug another girl if iam dating someone... well i dont like hugging random peopel in general but still ) and aim to be a good person.

my question is pretty simple, assuming the guy is not a loser and the physical attraction is there, is being kind and good a must, a plus or a deal breaker?

All I hear and see, is that almost everyone has thrown away their basic morals, and that relationships are almost becoming some sort of a myth, as if relationships never existed in the first place...

The hook up culture now looks like it's being accepted as if it's ok to be a slut/ fuck boy, and have no morals or standards, they just fuck only based on physical attraction... Nothing else matters to them at all, weather that person may or may not have an STD, or if the person them self knows they have an STD, but will not mention it to the person they are about to have sex with because they don't care about it, or if that person was also to catch what they have...

I find that unbelievably shocking, that people think it's ok and normal going around hooking up and having one night stands, as if they are immune to STD's, but having sexual diseres/ needs are normal, if your human, but being a slut/ fuck boy isn't, because we all know that them type of people can never hold a steady relationship, or ever be fully committed to that one person that they are with, and they are the types that are inevitably likely to cheat on their partner, or leave them because they got bored of them and no longer have any use for them...

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