Search Results: putting on weight

A lot of problems; the strangest "best guy friend" story you've ever heard. Need sensible yet uncommon advice!

First, the basics, I'm a 32 y.o. bi-racial, overweight female living and working in South Korea as an English teacher (you will understand the reason behind stating the physical descriptions later), my friend is a 36...

hiyase269

Xper 5 Age: 47

A couple weeks ago boyfriend of 2 years decided on a "break"...What's going on now?

3 weeks ago Friday after I told him I was depressed and felt like he was taking me for granted, my boyfriend of 2 years decided that we needed to take a break so he could "change". His parents have been talking about...

kiyominiji

Xper 4 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

When I look in the mirror, I don't see what other people see when they look at me?

I started putting on weight in middle school and have just graduated from high school. Over my 4 years in hs I have lost 35lbs. I now weigh 135 but I still see the fat girl. I also don't see myself as pretty. People...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

10 most common lies among us girls. Girls is it true?

I've stumbled upon an article titled "the 10 most common lies among us girls", OK the writer is a girl so that's y I wanted to check with you I forgot the order so I'm putting'em randomly, girls lie: -1 about age -2...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do most guys avoid approaching a bit chubby women?

Do guys (decent guys that are around the ages of 20-25, avoid approaching women that are a bit heavier than what society deems to be ideal... Younger guys don't seem to approach me that much, and maybe it's my weight...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My wife is putting on weight, how would you broach the subject?

I love my wife and I am okay with her being overweight. She never was and never will be thin. But in the past several months she has been putting on more weight. She exercises, though inconsistently. I think the major...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What's the best way to ask out a co worker?

there is this gal at work who I've digged for a long time. She is super cool and cute but I am not for putting a gal at work in that situation and vice versa. We flirt but she is flirty with most people at work who...

mikewnaz

Xper 6 Age: 44

Girl's Behavior

Why will guys sometimes blatantly lie to girls about how they look?

I've noticed that when I'm down, my boyfriend will sometimes lie to me to make me feel better. However, this usually only makes me feel worse. For example, my acne has flared up this week. This morning I was eating...

Red_Raconteur

Yoda Age: 36

Do guys not like skinny girls anymore?

im 17 and in year 11. I'm skinny, I have long hair and long legs, but I'm not up myself, I'm a nice person who is always smiling. but I've never had a boyfriend before and it seems that guys only like girls who are not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to I become skinny from exercise and not from not eating?

I've realized I'm skinny because I don't eat a lot of high calorie foods rather than doing a lot of exercise. I do walk for about 45 minutes a day, 5 days a the week, but I'm sure this doesn't do much because on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a girl just being nice when she says that she is thinking about your relationship?

My fiancee and I recently broke up. She started talking to another guy. This guy is not right for her at all, and she will lose all ties with her family if they find out. My fiancee is 23, and this guy is 37. I am 25. I...

lookin4her1985

Xper 4 Age: 40

What do you think? gross or get over it?

I had a transplant 5 years ago and it left a huge scar that runs across my abdomen and the mess I have to take make me gain some weight. Is this putting guys off?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Being self conscious about your image/persona and the measures you've taken to change them?

It could be little things like... Girls not leaving the house without make-up Boys putting socks in their pants, girls wearing padded bras Girls wearing high heels if they feel they're short Smoking to fit in with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend isn't nice anymore?

okay we started dating almost 3 years ago and he was really sweet and affectionate towards me but a half year in he started to tell me that I needed to lose weight and how I dressed was weird, etc. it did mess with me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he care, or his just playing along?

I'm not normally the kind of person to ask so many questions on guy troubles or such, unless is my mates and such...Still here it goes, I'm starting to crush on a guy I used to hang out with since very little, after his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this a mean thing to think?

There is a point for every person when they get too big for their frame, I mean unhealthily so caring too much extra fat or very unfit. And when someone gets to that point nothing looks good on them the same goes for...

thisislifebaby

Xper 5 Age: 31

Do diets ruin relationships?

i've been on the up day down day diet for 5 months and have lost 40lbs yet I'm still 45 lbs heavier than megan fox- that 'ideal' weight where men turn heads and don't find you invisible. We live in such a shallow society!...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I can't take this crap anymore, am I just immune to weight gain?

I know there are a lot of people who wish they could be in my shoes. I know my situation could probably be worse. Some of you may be weirded out by this, but I am trying to GAIN weight. I eat a lot of food, yet I only...

EngineeringStudent

Guru Age: 34