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I’m a rather quiet and peaceful person but I’ve attracted a lot of people in my life that started drama and confronted me about things I did. And when I told others how they reacted, they stated that those people were overreacting and I’m not the problem.

Its usually always been with women. They’re okay to my face but the second I turn away, I hear gossip from someone else. If I’m quiet and stay to myself, why do they have an issue with me?

This has happened a lot in my life, from middle school to present. I don’t think I’m the problem. I’m just unlucky. It’s happened with family drama too.

So I’m posting this under relationships because it applies to friendship and romance. I am 25 and recent college grad. I still live at home but plan to move out next year.

When I say I have no friends, I mean NONE. I tried making them in HS and college (lived at home) but it didn’t work out. I try dating apps to meet people and it isn’t successful.

I do not think I’m unattractive but I don’t get hit on like other women I know. I have rarely been asked out and it was by guys I did not find attractive. Everyone says love will find you and you will make friends but I have no expectations at this point/know that I won’t happen.

Im very quiet and only speak when spoken to. I’ve been bullied back in HS and Middle school, even at a previous workplace. I don’t know what I do to warrant their behavior but I have given up on people. I stay to myself and don’t like being alone, yet cannot deal with peoples BS at this point.

My mother’s side of the family has caused a lot of unnecessary drama in my life and I don’t talk to them. I avoid my grandmother and my father at all costs

Anyone relate or am I unlucky as I suppose?

So I've been at a job for 7 months. I started at the same time as a woman that also has no previous experience in higher education. There is a new guy at the job and she was asked to have him shadow her. There are 5 advisors in total, all of them were asked but me. The other new advisor, here for 3 months, had him shadow her but she has over a decade of experience in higher education. I feel like it’s an indication that I’m not doing well enough and my bosses don’t trust me. I’ve spoken to my boss about my insecurities and concerns and reassured me a few days before he came that I’m doing fine. So why did you not let him shadow me? I’m very quiet and don’t talk unless spoken to.

There’s something that I’m missing