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I am working a seasonal job at Toys R Us. Gives me a way to pay for Christmas and give my boys something extra.
On my first day I was introduced to a new manager at that location. My jaw dropped to the floor. She is just beyond beautiful. Now I have never asked a woman out without knowing something about her. I never really dated before my marriage. I went on dates with 5 women but always women I worked with for some time. Then I was with my ex wife 25 years. In the last 1 1/2 years of dating I have done all of it online so I at least did chat/text with them. But I just couldn't let this go without at least trying to get 1 date to see if we might have something in common.
Well I asked her out last night...
Her response was "Even if I wanted to I can't due to policy of Toys R us. I can't even get my brother a job here because of those policies".
What I didn't hear was a NO.
I thought that maybe she could have said "I want to but I can't while your working here". But that could be against the policy and I guess she could think I was a plant in there testing her for TRU. Or maybe that would be taken as her telling me to quit?
SO...
I will try again after I am off the schedule and no longer work there in January.
Here is my dilema..
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I was thinking I would go to a local flower shop. I would find something nice but simple. I am just asking her out so I don't want something over the top. I would have it delivered while she is working.
I have come up with the following for the card.
"The first time I saw you I said "WOW". Luckily you didn't hear me :). Everytime I saw you after that moment I thought "WOW". If you give me a chance I can show you that I have a WOW in me (or maybe say In my heart?). Will you meet me for a drink? Phone ##"
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Is that cheesy? I am looking for an "awww.. look what he did.."
I don't pretend to know how women think at all. So I really don't know if this is a good move.
Maybe I should just go in and ask her out face to face again?

Ok I've posted before here for advice about my now ex girlfriend. So here's the deal a few weeks ago me and my ex of 1 and half years broke up. She fed me the whole distance and spark was gone deal at first right. So I took that at face value figured their was something else that was an issue but left it alone cause I waiting for her to vocalize what it was. Fast forward a week and half I get a FB message from a former close friend of hers saying she basically cheated throughout the whole duration of our relationship. Me fucking pissed called her to finally get the truth still giving her the benefit of the doubt. Later that night she calls me says she did in fact cheat on me at this party like 2 months ago but tells me the FB message is far more exagerated. At this point Im devastated because I loved her with everything cared for her like no one before has and for her to do it shit killed me. My biggest issue was the fact she didn't have the courage to tell me with so many opportunities beforehand for example the last time I saw her she came to my house to get all her stuff I asked to to sit down and talk with me cause I knew her first reasoning wasn't the full truth. NOPE! She Leaves and I kinda start getting over it.

Ok now fast forward another week and half which is today feeling much better she calls me telling me her reason for cheating was cause she thought she could get away with it. Goes on to say there were 2 other times she cheated so now the story has changed again! Forgot to mention she tells me about how she slept with a dude after we broke up didn't really care but thinks she might be pregnant now doesn't know if its mine or his 😑 and Im just like wow now you're gonna be linked to someone who you dont even love for the rest of your life good job. so we got off the cheating topic and she says she misses me loves me and wants me to go on a date with her and I'm just like... WHAT? 😑

It sucks cause I do still love and care for her but the pregnant thing kills it😕