Search Results: he disappeared but is still in touch

What Makes a Relationship and How to Maintain the Spark?

The key to a healthy relationship is communication, respect and quality over quantity! Let me make it clear that I am not trained or qualified by the state to say any of this. This is from experience and personal...

LazarusTheRisen

Xper 5 Age: 35

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Guy's Behavior

I caught his location at a hotel and he still lied to me, what would you do?

My long distance boyfriend (we didn’t make our relationship official) was showing at a hotel on his Snapchat location. I asked him what’s up and he lied to me saying he’s at work and disappeared for the rest of the day...

Winterblues

Xper 2 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

When she turns love into hate (what's the best way to handle it)?

I ended up seducing (in as far as attraction/starting a conversation is concerned) a girl a while back - she was interested in chatting, and had I been able to at the time, it could have gone into being a relationship...

soleil2666

Xper 7 Age: 48

Break Up & Divorce

How to handle an ex girlfriend texting?

She dumped me a little over year ago. I was never really happy about it but wasn't able to get her to change her mind. Since she still reaches out periodically like once every 2-3 weeks with things like recommending a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Help what is this guys deal?

Hi guys I met a guy on tinder a few months ago he was super into me at first then ended it suddenly without explanation really anyway we sort of kept in touch just the occasional text only friendly then all of a sudden he...

Mummy5

Xper 4 Age: 52

Relationships

Is he just simply being a playboy to me? or, he's truly falling in love and things are getting too serious he's scared so backing off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

We met on Tinder. We are both still on Tinder. His intention was to find something more serious than just sex. He takes me out to dinner and he pays for everything. We met only 3 times

We met on Tinder. We are both still on Tinder. His intention was to find something more serious than just sex. He takes me out to dinner and he pays for everything. We met only 3 times and we have really good chemistry together. He thinks it seems we've know each other forever. But really, I don't really know him so it's hard to tell.

Honestly, his Instagram gave me the vibe that he's a playboy. Tons of girls on there and he's a party animal. He loves to party and have a good time kind of dude. My intention with him was nothing serious because of that. But he had done a few things that touched my heart. He went out of his way and bought me medication to my door because I was feeling really sick. He also came over to my place, helped me build my Christmas tree and with other stuff around the house.

Yesterday, he spent the entire day and night with me. We also have a lot of sex but I think it's because we both have a high sex drive. We also have really good sex and probably the best I ever had. He just always want to spend more time with me. When he looks at me in the eye I can tell he's kind of in love. He also say things reassuring he somewhat loves me but trying to stay away from that. He also invited me to his work event X'mas. When I told him I'm not sure if I want to go, he pressured me into going as his date. When we were about to go to bed, he turned facing away from me. Then tells me don't worry, I still love you I'm just positioning myself comfortably (don't know why he would say that). This morning, he dropped me off at work as well. He sent me a few text messages after that but he disappeared since mid afternoon. We text on Whatsapp and it shows he read my message but he did not reply. He's also has been on the app quite a bit through the day.

I'm not sure if he's all bluffing about inviting me to his work Christmas party etc. But I do sense he has strong feelings towards me. He might be backing off not sure what to do because he's not sure what he wants. HELP

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Relationships

Timely Advice - How To Actually Meet Men’s Desires

I was asked to this MyTake as a follow up to a previous one I had done about giving women what they want. That take was more of what men can do for the women in their life. This is what women can do for their man. A few...

Knighted2170

Yoda Age: 55

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Entertainment & Arts

Star Wars - A Faded Hope

Star Wars - The Lucas Years When Star Wars - A New Hope came out in 1977, it just blew me away, along with everybody else in the audience. People were actually clapping their approval at the end, and I wanted the story to...

MarkRet

Guru Age: 70

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Dating

Does my ex still have feelings for me?

So my ex and I have been apart for about a year and a half now. A lot of people are telling me it’s obvious he still likes me and some even want us to get back together. We were no contact for a fair while but we started...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Urban Legends of America: Part 3, Some From Arizona

My mother Rachel was born in Ware, Massachusetts and moved with my grandma, Jean, and my grand dad, Karl to Phoenix, Arizona, where they lived for a number of years. Some of the stories were told by her to me as she...

LegateLanius

Master Age: 35

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Dating

Not sure what to do -should I step forward or hold back?

Right well there is this guy who I had a thing with a few years ago. I thought he was my soul mate as I'd never felt like that before. Problem was that I wasn't fully out of a previous relationship (we still lived...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why do I think about/miss my ex boyfriend although I am happy and I love my current boyfriend :( ? please help me :( ?

So my ex boyfriend was a school friend, we loved each other when we were in the 5th grade, and it has always been on and off through the years until university and even after graduation.. but he has always been a very...

SunshineGal

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

How can a girl know if a guy is still interested after the 1st date?

So.. Im into this guy i work with, we met at work 2 months ago nd we instantly hit it off the 1st day we met! we started our "friendship" by teasing eachother. . When we're working we're always teasing eachother, if i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Entertainment & Arts

Specialized Photos

This Take was long overdue, but here it is now. So a good buddy of mine had recently left after asking me to create my own photography Take since he's a photographer himself. If you haven't already, try checking out his...

Lopezz1999

Editor Age: 26

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Break Up & Divorce

What should I do after he disappeared for apparent no reason?

So I have met this guy through a mutual friend towards the end of may. At first I thought he honestly was a douchebag, but for some reason I stayed at a club with him and another guy for longer than the others and agreed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If a guy comes back after 7 months, how long do you think he will give up on the second chance?

I dated this guy for 3 months, but barely dated him as he could never meet up, and just kept texting. So I cut him off and disappeared from his fb and deleted his number without a word. 7 months went by and he comes back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Can chemistry disappear between meetings?

I share a lot of chemistry with a guy I work with but because we work in different offices in different cities, we don't get to see each other very often. Something very nearly happened the last time we seen each other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys remain friends with some exes and not others?

What makes a guy want to be friends and stay in touch with some exes or past romantic interests (like ex-crushes), and not others? I had a breakup a little over a year ago with one guy, and we then lost contact for nearly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Would you consider this a betrayal?

Imagine you are close friends with a co-worker (let's call him B). You work together, you talk about everything, you go clubbing with your group, etc. I saw him as someone I could trust would have my back, since I helped...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What should I do next?

So I met this girl a few weeks ago and we started to hang out. Last night, She wanted to go to this bar as to hang out with her friends and some are mutual friends so I am fine with it. This was set more as a date then...

Quitkyconfidence

Xper 5 Age: 36