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Search Results: no spark at a date
Is Finding Your True Love Worth $10,000 An Hour?
I work in the dating, relationship, and love coaching area. I've been doing this since the early 1990s when the whole industry was nothing more than a newsgroup. A year and a half ago I started a podcast just to answer...
Knighted2170
Yoda Age: 55 I have romantic feelings for the wrong guy... my cousin. Hormones or something real?
So yeah. Basically just as the title says, but please READ FIRST. I am an 18 year old girl, senior in high school. My cousin is 33, but if you saw him in person, you would think he's in his early twenties. That's how...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girl broke off everything after considerable amount of dates?
I met a great gal in my sports club some time ago and were activity partners before we started dating. We had quite some fun together, but due to corona it was interrupted. She was a little reserved and did not...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I “Break up” with someone I’m not official with, without being a jerk?
I met this guy on Hinge 5 months ago and we hit it off at first but because of school and the pandemic we kept putting off even discussing meeting up at all. We had some nice in depth conversations at first, started...
Anonymous
(25-29) I dont understand my mind, Im still not over my ex?
I haven't opened facebook for a lot of months now, I opened and saw my search engine so I clicked on my Ex (in search history) He changed his profile w his current girlfriend now (which he didn't do w me), they've been...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can you get tinder dates during a 6 pm curfew?
Where I am now there is a curfew at 6 p. m. and has been for about a month now. Needless to say that has dried up my tinder activity. Before I could invite a girl over after metting online, we get to know eachother...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, School girl roleplay scenarios and ideas?
I'm planning a night complete spoiling for my boyfriend for valentines day. The Sparks have definitely pretty much dissipated at this point and I feel as though there is nothing in this world he would rather do than to...
Preachersdaughter69
Xper 3 Age: 35 What do you believe the purpose of a relationship is?
I believe that a relationship is for love, friendship, companionship, partner, mentorship, trust, support, and more. However, I also believe that a relationship should not lack the chemistry, sparks, especially in...
Anonymous
(30-35) When a person wants to be with you, is it or is it not true that they will move heaven and earth to be with you?
After 3 years of being single I decided this year 2021 I was going to start dating again. I put myself out there and it hasn't been too bad. I matched on an online dating app with someone and they checked 9 out of 10...
KnightKissedbyFire
Xper 5 Age: 36 Why do I feel so uncomfortable with my boyfriend? Is he boring? Chemistry/Spark?
Hi guys. Recently had a breakup and assessing my bf’s past behavior. When we started dating he was the most handsome man I’d ever met, seemed perfect on paper. However, when we’d hang out it just seemed kind of...
Anonymous
(25-29) This guy stood me up last night and I’m tempted to ghost him. He just texted me 5 minutes ago. What should I do?
I swore I would never ghost anyone ever again. I apologized to the guy I ghosted a long time ago and promised myself not to do it again. I dated people and would want to be done but would hang around because I didn’t have...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I go out on dates w/ women I’m not attracted to rebuild up social confidence again?
Lockdown was one of the worst things that could of happened for eligible bachelor looking to date. It’s complicated but I don’t get many matches on dating apps with women that are at least moderately attractive. I’m...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do woman lashout/trash talk/hate on when you compliment them?
Hello Since 2015, I had a lot of woman lashing out at me for telling them compliment. I know those woman and I'm usually on good term with them. Example : - The beautiful José ( This one made a bug fuss over n...
usernamesk
Xper 4 Age: 37 Observations on Behavior in Dating: A Battle Between the Sexes
This may trigger some people because whether you want to admit it or not, everyone does at least a few of these things when dating. I am equally guilty of doing some of these things too. As I have been on this site for a...
DexWest
Xper 7 Age: 33 What is the exact reason for this scenario , help maybe?
Let’s say you have a bestie you’ve been friends with for three years. You two both like each other but he feels like he’s never good enough , tries to date other girls but still no real spark exists. The spark between you...
Anonymous
(18-24) Online Dating: Why You Should/Shouldn’t Do It
Disclaimer: These are my thoughts and there is no scientifically proof or evidence to support my reasoning. Written: 10-10-2020 We live in a digital universe. Online dating has become the new norm, especially now with...
PinkGiraffee
Xper 5 Age: 24 What should I do?
We met almost a year back and had a spark instantly. We used to be together all the time and hold hands in private to the point that our classmates thought we were dating. In February, he said that he loved me over a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Here is how my date went; should there be a second date?
We are both 19, met on a dating app. So overall the date lasted 9 hours. He picked me up from my house and we just drove places, no plan—which was super fun. He was a sweet guy, a bit introverted, shy. He didn’t...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, Everyone surprised I’m still single but no one will date me - any suggestions?
Hi All, All my friends are surprised that am single and not met anyone - but the problem is no one will date me. My single friends seem to be able to find dates easy and they have a few and have a girlfriend it’s...
TangoAlpha
Xper 3 Age: 41 Have you ever fallen for someone who shared the very things you hated about your exes?
I don't know how to word it lol. But its like God’s testing me. I met this great guy. The mental connection is on point with how we finish eachothers sentences and share this psychic/intuitive spark. The physical...
