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Like he'll be hot and cold, one time hell be texting you a lot then just not text back, or hell playfully tease you instead of just being nice and caring only. there's guys that dont act nice and just playfully mess with girls, etc.

Now from middle school up even into college, girls didn't respond directly if they were nice to them. What they did respond to was when you (in the right way so it didn't hurt your feelings or make him seem like a douche) told them what to do, and mess with them, and not being overly direct like a lot girls claim to like.

For example, a lot of girls ask "does he like me or not? It would be so much easier if he just told me he likes me." Girls usually agree, but a lot of guys would say not to tell her that.

One person put it girls dont really know what makes guys attractive to them. She'll question your value and it might make you expendable because she knows she has you. Also when i bring up im going to playfully mess with a girl im into, guys understand it, my girlfriends say "dont do that thats a bad idea" when I've seen it work on the girl whos telling me not to. She fell for it and she's saying its a bad idea. And its worked on girls who always complain they dont want players and say they just want a nice guy.

Guys who were originally only nice and caring learned trough experience that not many girls give direct responses to those traits, but the other ones mentioned do get a response.

Now im not generallizing all guys think this way but a good portion realized this and change their ways.