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I've found that in general, men and women do not "fall in love" together but rather one of the two will try to pursue or attract the other with a relationship in mind (or sex, if you're that kind of person). Furthermore, most would agree that is in someway more difficult to woo a pretty girl vs one who isn't quite so pretty.

That said, is there any objective difference between successfully courting an attractive woman and a more plain one (as a guy)?


If the answer is no, then likely the difficulty is that a man's confidence is affected, creating uncertainty and self-doubt. This is by far the most attractive option since it gives hope, but is it realistic?

If the answer is yes, than perhaps an attractive woman is intentionally pickier about her choice of romantic partners, knowing that she is in demand

I ask because I've grown increasingly sick of the invisible wall of separation that exists between me and some girls, simply because of some of my facial imperfections. I despise the thought of accepting a lower standard, or that I would have to hope that a beautiful girl would happen to have low enough standards to include me. It feels like being locked in a cage. I just want a girlfriend whom I can truly call beautiful without reservation so that I don't have to keep half-lying.

If you get annoyed with fuck boys hitting on you, then I dare you to go out in public without make-up on, and then see how many guys will hit on/ try flirt with you then.

Cause a real guy (like me) can love a girl who can be comfortable in her natrual beauty, and be her self, and she doesn't care or worry about what others think of them and about how she looks either.

But fuck boys go for those who look easy and done up with make-up just to get their dick wet.

So if your tired of fuck boys hitting on you, next time you go out in public, DON'T wear make-up, see if a real man who can love you the way you are/ look with natrual beauty hits on you instead.

That's how you will know the difference between fuck boys who just wants you for sex compared to a real guy/ man who can/ will love you the way you are in genral.

Regardless of whether you have had one or not, do you like the idea of having a friend with which you have sex too? Why?
What is the difference with a relationship? Only commitment?

Is this linked article right about relationships? (Copy and paste url):
thoughtcatalog. com/rachel-lytle/2015/03/an-open-letter-to-every-boy-who-doesn’t-want-a-relationship-right-now/

If yes, then I just realized how twisted my worldview is. I didn’t realize what I meant by dating was different from what other people meant, as to speak past each other without realizing it. (Though I still don’t understand why the above article implies that more than one partner is bad).

If this article is true, what’s the difference between dating and repeated casual sex?