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Search Results: going slow
Has anyone been slacking on their appearance because of this pandemic?
I finally went and get my hair cut yesterday and I was talking to the hairdresser and she was telling Me business has been slow because people aren’t really going out anymore , so getting haircuts and nails done etc...
"Boy Problems" He's no longer into me?
I have brought it up and he said it was because I wasn't given a lot back so he got tired. (True, but he *completely* shut off all affection/signs of interest towards me- mine was just minimum as I was going slower). We...
Anonymous
(18-24) What are your tips for going to the gym, exercising, getting fit or cardio, for people who hate all that?
I'm 300 pounds (135 kg) and just starting going back to the gym again. I go five days a week at 8pm after I finish work (my gym is on the second floor and I work on the fifth floor). I am starting to "get used to it"...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 What phase are you guys in due to COVID?
Louisiana is still in phase 2 unfortunately and the COVID deaths are just climbing. It seems things are slow and everything is shut down here ; I doubt we’re going back to full recover. There not letting anyone in...
ct1243
Xper 7 Age: 37 What does it mean when a married man is interested in a married womans husband and wants to know who he is and what he looks like? ?
I recently ran into a man that I had a crush on 27 years ago. The chemistry was there but I left him after a slow dance (he asked me up) and we went our separate ways with marriage. Last time I met him was at the bank 4...
ConfusedMarried
Xper 4 Age: 51 Is it possible to turn a casual dating/sex relationship into something real if he thought I was out of his league and not wanting more with him?
We had this casual thing going on for a couple months where we’d spend time together and get to know each other (kick it for a few hours and have some beer) and we’d also have sex. We both went into it very slow and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ever realised just how messed up you're life is, was. Now I'm working at healing from it.
Since a young age I've been nothing but kind. I was raised to be a good person, but when I look back I wasn't raised to be a leader in the way others lead. Lead with kindness. Little things like share with others, because...
lilyanony1
Yoda Age: 35 How long while dating someone do you know if you’re compatible in ways outside of sexually (like personality, needs, values, etc.)?
I’ve been seeing a guy for 2 months now and I tried to engage in a conversation of how he felt about me/where he saw us going. We’ve seen each other like once every week due to work/schedules. He told me he likes me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do girls meet bfs parents fast? how do u meet bfs family?
I never met bfs family. Ik him since age 23 and he’s now 28 and I’m 23. We just began dating since last year November. We went on a trip to far city recently for entire day & have gone shopping many times, I helped him...
Sugar100
Yoda Age: 29 2 dates and no kiss?
So I've been on two dates with a guy I met on bumble. He's 26, I'm 25. He's very nice, kinda shy in person in a way. He's easy to talk to but definitely doesn't come off as an overly physical person? So our first...
Anonymous
(30-35) I was emotionally broken for 18.5 years
I've talked about this before in some posts but I've finally completed the level. It's always easier to describe stuff when you look back on it than when you're still in the middle of it. Trauma I was always developing a...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 Don't worry, sane rational people. We will eventually win the Culture War.
(Warning: This post is long! 17,000 characters.) I just got home, ate a burger, and I feel surprisingly good. You see, yesterday, Disney and Lucasfilm fired Gina Carano from The Mandalorian, someone who called for unity...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 How to deal with people?
My school had it for me ever since I was in 8th grade I had straight A’s and this Lady put me in all the slow classes in high school I thought my gpa and grades would put me in honor classes. That’s not the worse part,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Boyfriend says "You will never find anyone better than me?" Emotionally draining. Is he a narcissists or loves drama? What does he want from me?
When I would bring up slightly upsetting circumstances; leaving a broom and dust pan on the floor of the bathroom overnight, he would find ways to turn it against me or bring heated issues to unrelated topics. He would...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he moving slow or uninterested?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago on bumble. We have GREAT conversation and went on one date so far. I had a lot of fun. He's very nice, we have a lot in common and he's texted me consistently since. We're supposed to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Birth control issues (lo loestrin fe)?
i’m currently on my 3rd week of lo loestrin fe. i’ve been breakthrough bleeding for a week now. it’s very light. it’s my first month on it & i’ve researched and found that it’s common while your body adjusts to the...
aalexiss
Xper 4 Age: 23 The Struggle of Being Vulnerable
Age 11 is the earliest time that I can remember being truly vulnerable. There was this girl I really liked in the 6th grade. When I asked her out she said, yes. Like any innocent kid with a crush, it meant the world to me...
Dongtai
Yoda Age: 108 If you're not confident in someone to like you back enough or take bigger steps, should you just move on?
I am sure he's somewhat interested in me, but I just feel underinvested... And maybe he's too busy with his other options. It just sucks cuz he seemed husband material, but whats the point if he's not putting much...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would you consider this immaturity on his end?
Asked this dude I used to talk to he recently contacted me where he now lives. He responds with the great white north. I have no clue where the fuck that is. Now if I Google it it says Canada. A place I do not live FYI....
Anonymous
(30-35) Should you call or text her when wanting to tell her how you feel?
ok look we’ve only dated for a month. Ik Ik Ik please save your opinions on that part of the question. I’m 26 years old I’ve been in 3 real relationships and a shit ton of situationships or fucklationships as I call it...
Anonymous
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