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I’ve been speaking to someone via Snapchat maybe almost a year. I only met up with him once in person to buy something, he would normally ask questions about myself or compliment my photos. He asked maybe two months ago if I would wanna meet up because he’s vaccinated but that fell through the cracks. He does normally make the first move, he asked last wk if I wanted to play a co op game with him but the game didn’t interest me. So I suggested another game we have and he said if I ever wanna play just let him know. But my thing is… if he actually liked me he would’ve initiated playing together not putting the ball in my court now you know..

I just don’t get how people are able to get lucky and meet someone special. I’m going to be 27 soon and knowing that I’ve never been in a real relationship and even out on a date with a guy that has me swoon is odd. I’ve given up on dating apps, I just want a cute smart guy next door. I’m told I’m cute too but was never the woman to get approached by guys in person hence why I figured apps were a better bet. And dating apps have provided nothing but frustration and made me doubt myself even more, as you can see from another post I don’t have a social life. Anytime I hear people say you just haven’t met the right guy it boils my blood. Men and their conceited ways also irritate me but I can’t help but feel the desire to just want that love that I see portrayed all the time on social media and have a guy wine and dine me you know lol.

On a serious note, I mean I’ve known women that say they met their boyfriends while playing video games or in such a random encounter. I play video games and have done the online aspect of it, I really don’t go looking for love any longer (hence dating apps) but don’t understand how it happens by chance for everyone but me. I don’t get what I need to do, I genuinely
know I’m not the issue here.

Long story short: I just fail to meet a guy that’s cute and has a good personality, along with guys just never cold approaching me period.

Met a guy on Hinge a while ago. Because of my schedule, I wasn’t able to meet him until about 2 weeks ago. He was super accommodating to my schedule.

Date 1 (Friday night): I suggest drinks since he’s new to my area. We do that and take a nice stroll around the city. He was a gentleman the entire time which I loved. He was also super eager to see me again and probably asked me ~3 times during the course of the night when he’d get to see me again. He dropped me off at my apartment and we kissed.

”2”: The following night, Saturday. Again because of my schedule, couldn’t do anything until late so we decided on a chill night. We made dinner together and I slept with him and slept over. When he took me home, he asked again when he’d get to see me again. We made loose plans for the coming week. I should also mention, at some point we were chatting (we were talking about dating) and he said he generally doesn’t like the texting every second every single thing you do (like I just drank water, I just ate a cookie etc). Which was fine with me, I also mentioned that I hate small talk. We’d text every other day. He hit me up a day or two later asking if I had a few free minutes for lunch (he was close to my area). Made plans for the end of the week.

“3”: this past Friday night. We went to a lounge/bar area I suggested, went back to his place, hooked up again. (Almost forgot, he’s been dropping me off and picking me up since date 1 which is about an hour drive each way). Drove me home the next morning but this time, didn’t ask when he’d see me again. I knew it was a busy weekend for him (he was visiting family for the weekend and had a soccer game he was playing in right after dropping me off). I haven’t heard from him since.

I don’t know if it’s me overthinking this especially because we did kinda establish that we don’t like the small talk texting, but does it sound like losing interest? Should I text him?