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WHICH ONE WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE AS YOUR SERIOUS, COMMITTED GIRLFRIEND?
The follow-up question to the one from two weeks ago. You get two women to choose from.

Option A is a girl you find out is named Alicia. She is flawlessly beautiful and has a nearly perfect body, like a fictional character rather than someone who's actually real. Easily can be considered a Nine, if not an outright Ten. She's 5'10"/178 cm, a college athlete, a "master at sex," and works hard to maintain her figure. However, she is very superficial and a perfectionist. She is very hard to please, conceited and only thinks of herself, and expects you to live up to her lofty, high standards at all times, or she will dump you and publicly embarrass you while doing it. Commit to her lifestyle, or you're gone.

Option B is a girl you find out is named Bodhika. She's not what you'd consider physically attractive, at all. Whatever your personal standards are, she's halfway towards the opposite of them. But she could maybe be "good enough" as far as looks go. She's 5'5"/165 cm, has small breasts, narrow hips, a small booty, and is slightly overweight. She is studying to be a doctor. She has noticed you around the neighborhood and really likes you. She's kind, sweet, affectionate, has a really good sense of humor, quite intelligent, nonjudgmental, and accepts you for all your flaws and quirks. You might even have some hobbies in common, as well. You'll likely just never find her to be physically attractive (unless she undergoes extensive cosmetic surgery, which she is unwilling to do).

Which girl do you pick? The 10/10 with high standards, or the 5/10 who accepts you as you are right now?

Inspired by @siseñor girl's question.

I criticised a girl for doing Onlyfans and she calls me an incel. I’ve been called it so many times on here for sharing a view.
I am a virgin but I don’t want a hookup. I’m happy single. It’s hard to meet people too

But it appears that girls think your value as a man is whether you can get a girlfriend and laid?

What can women offer me that I need? Nothing. There’s only a few things that give me such joy and happiness in life and that’s myself. My success and hard work to my career which I love. Not women. I’ve never met one I really wanted to date, a lot of pretty girls exist in the world though.

A girl can leave you tomorrow. My achievements stick with me. I focus on them.

Ok I never expected to have to post here but here I am.
So My girlfriend is Japanese and we've been dating for a while and I met her parents like a month ago, they said they wanted a strong and mature man for their only daughter and I promised them I was strong enough to protect and take care of her.

Now I feel like they keep testing me though whenever we visit them/they visit us.

First incident her father kinda backhanded me in the face (not that hard but it kinda hurt) and he said it was accidental cuz he was moving his hands around and I was behind him. I barely reacted as I wanted to seem strong

Second incident was at their house, her mom asked me if I wanted anything to drink, I said juice or water if anything. Was sitting on the couch on my phone and 15 minutes later she threw one of those small juice boxes at me and it hit me right in the nuts. Again she said it was accidental and laughed a bit, I was really in pain this time for a good 15 minutes but I barely moved and acted like nothing but I think her mother could feel she had got me good. She asked if I wanted an icepack, I said no its barely anything.

3rd incident I was helping them with some garden work on flowers and the mom elbowed me in the gut, she said she was taking out bad weeds and it was accidental and this time It kinda hurt aswell (I didn't expect her to have such force) and I acted like It was nothing.

I feel like they are testing me and they keep speaking Japanese together when I'm here (the parents). Should I learn Japanese? Or another option? there's a poll

There are two guys I know who are pretty good friends. The question is end up the most desirable and successful in life? So who is going to be doing better in 25 years if we can check on them again. I will describe them to you and you decide who will fare better in life. And make your choice and explain your belief.

Guy 1:
Guy 1 Is 25 years old and is recent college graduate. He met guy 2 while working a blue collar job to sustain himself and worked through college and graduated college with no debt, owns his own car lives in his own apartment. He now works at a decent tech company. He is a hard working person, learns quickly and moves with purpose and vision. He's a thin, fit guy who is very dedicated to fitness and loves to go to the gym. He's very young looking for his age, couldn't grow facial hair on a bet. He likes to read and likes to learn new things. He's got lots of interests and he's strong and smart. He has dated, and had a couple of relationships, moderate dating and he can fairly easily get a date, in fact women ask him out some times.

Guy 2:
Guy 2 is 24. He still works at the blue collar job, but he's trying to get a better job in the industry and he's about to get it. He, however, has not been to college in fact he did not even graduate high school. He dropped out because he got his girlfriend pregnant at 16 had had a baby with her. He has been already married and divorced. He lives paycheck to paycheck, barely sustaining himself in the trailer that he rents with his child. Though not educated guy 2 is good with numbers and is just good at math generally. He too, is a hard working guy and he tries to do the right things, but he has a child and it's harder. He's a good looking thin guy that doesn't care for the gym he gets enough exercise at work, but he's fairly confident. He doesn't date much, but he has had a fair share of brief hookups.