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Yes there are varying levels of attractiveness, and in high school there is a status type deal so I can see leagues existing in that immature enviorment more, however if you keep yourself in decent shape, dress well, and talk smart, no one is really out of your league.

I personally lost my hair to a condition a couple years back and I'm a 20 year old white guy, have to shave it bald up top now, but you know unlike other people at no point was I like 'well I can't get the kind of girls I find very attractive now, I better adjust standards' I personally wouldn't date a girl I didn't fibd to be physically a 7 in terms of attractiveness at least, and that's something I'll never change, yeah I've been turned down some but everyone has, you just keep going for what you find attractive until one returns it, you shouldn't have to settle and that's why I think leagues are a mindset that only exists because people don't even take the chance thinking it's futile. So what you just go for someone you find plain then? I really think leagues is just an excuse to not go for what someone really wants due to fear of failure, I'm a 20 year old guy with no hair on my head, I'm pale but you know my face and eyes get a shitload of compliments and I stay slender, so despite it all, I'll still go for what some view as 'above my league' because I don't fear the fall from taking the jump.

I know it's more like a my take here, but I wanted to see if others agree with what I have to say about leagues etc. So what do you feel on the subject?

note that while I do think there is a general view of what is attractive or not, there is a lot of personal input, some friends don't get why I'm so attracted to a slender girl with no breasts etc when I just see her beautiful face and healthy build etc

My friend balded early and shaves his head bald now, besides skinny and pale he actually pulls it off decently due to his face and headshape, it isn't perfect but it fits and he pulls it better than most guys would I think. Anyway he is very self conscious around girls now, saying the attrwctive ones won't want him etc. (People don't bash that, I get him still needing a girl who's attraxtive I do too so do most people it's just human) and while I'm sure for some it's a dealbreaker I doubt it's that huge of an issue. But I found this site and figured it's a good place to ask. So girls, in the requested age range, can a young bald guy (he's only 19) who shaves what's left to the skin still be considered attractive and romantically desireable and could you date one, or is hair important enough you couldn't get past the lack of it on most guys? Brutal straightforwardness please, if it's as bad as he says I'll rethink my stance on what he said

I'm 18 balded early and shaved it down to the skin, I'm white and kinda pale as my skin doesn't tan. I'm small kinda 5'10 and 135 pounds but I fit my frame okay so while I'm skinny I'm not some pencil neck guy. And I worry young girls especially attractive, will be put off by it, please no feel good answers just the truth, and picture if a young bakd guy actually approached you and your response before you just say yes out of goodwill.