How to get an Asian guy to ask me out?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently attending a new school after transferring (LSU) and I'm really attracted to Asian men but I'm having trouble getting a date with one. I'm always looking up between classes hoping to catch their eye if he looks at me but so far none of them have. It's like they just look striaght past me and don't notice me or they're too focused on other things to notice. Other times when I see Asian guys they are normally in groups with other Asian guys. I often hear Asian guys asking if white girls like them (I'm like as pale as it gets and I have never once tanned with golden brown hair) so I'm starting to think its something more than looks because I also wondered if Asian guys liked white girls but apparently they do. (Which brings me to wonder how many of them would go so far as to marry a white girl because I'm ready to settle down once I find someone I'm compatible with-asking because of statistics) I'm too scared to make the first move and people often tell me that Asian guys are really shy so I might have to make the first move if I ever hope to date any of them... I was raised by overprotective parents so I have a HUGE difficulty even calling the grocery store... I don't think I could approach them if I tried not to mention they're almost always in groups in which case I really wouldn't want to approach them. (also I'm never in groups with anyone except one woman at the end of the day) I carpool to school so as soon as my classes are over we leave. I feel stupid hoping to start up a conversation between classes when there's only 10 minutes before the next class starts but I don't have any other time unless I find some excuse to be alone for a while (or skip a class but I would rather not). I really want to get at least one date! Even talking to one of them would make me feel a lot better but I don't know what to do. Advice approaching an Asian guy or helping him approach me would be appreciated!!

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Well it's not entirely about him being Asian I just threw that in there just to be more detailed wasn't sure if it would help... But really it wouldn't matter who he was he could be a woman and I would have trouble just saying "hello"!! I guess it's more of how to talk to people in general without having a heart attack lol I haven't SPOKEN to any of them yet and I wouldn't know how to go about doing that just the thought of walking up and saying "hi" to anyone makes me lock up...

[Eddie_yxr]

I m Asian and I was born and raised in China, so I can tell you a few things you might not know about Asians
Asians talk loud but they're actually conservative inside, if this Asian man is interesting in you and around the age of 20 he'ill probably start thinking of long terms plans.
If you want to date an Asian better get prepare ;) they might not be as hilarious as you do, don't expect midnight trip to McDonald or skip class to go to seaside, but they're patient, many Asian couples can stand on long distance relationship, there are a lot of cultural bias u need to over come ;) good luck

[vietboy1st]

1/ you need to be friend with them. 2/ too many stereotype out there and Asian always over thinking before approaching a girl because I don't like to fail at anything they do even in dating. 3/ you don't ask an Asian guy out, which will make you look cheap 4/ you can try out Asian dating website group which will be easier for you. Asian guys do like attractive and slim girls most of the time because 97% Asian girls are slim and skinny.. Sorry it is the truth , American girls tend to be bulky and big which is not in their interests... :D Hope this will help you.

[Asker]

haha well i actually have a little japanese in my family so i stil have the small frame/height haha xD but other than that you wouldn't be able to tell by looking at me (blonde/brown hair, green eyes, and very pale) and well its just hard getting close to any of them because of the difference in majors... it seems like 99% of Asians at my school are in computer science and pre-vet (my major) is 95% women... so it makes things hard on me lol and not many friends at a new school since i transfered but wanted to take advantage before i graduated haha my chances of finding an Asian guy (offline) outside of school not to mention one im attracted to in louisiana is slim to none lol

[vietboy1st]

time will tell, the city with a lot of Asian = California, Texas, Boston, Massachusetts. :D. Just don't rush into an Asian guy because you like Asian. Asian guys do have asshole and good guy like any other races. So yeah good luck.

[Asker]

Ya haha i just had to stop talking to one because after talking to him for a month he finally admitted to me that he would never be able to commit to any girl not even enough to call her his girlfriend for at least a few more YEARS... so ya that was disappointing lol but i guess i'll just find someone even better... but thanks :)

[I_am_repulsive]

Yep Definitely I'm somewhat Asian, well 3/4 Asian (Filipino and Spanish) and 1/4 German and I have Caucasian as my preference and yes I do go crazy for them and my SO is Caucasian, but it's not really different than any other race. Just get to know him better, test the waters a little bit and work your way from there.

[Asker]

I wish I could get that far tho!! I have no clue how to meet anyone to even get to that point. Just the thought of saying "hello" almost gives me a heart attack (ya i know its pathetic but im trying... lol)

[I_am_repulsive]

It's not pathetic at all. It just takes practice to get out of your comfort zone and it's often appreciated when girls are actually the one who initiates first

[Leetinman70]

Any particular reason you are attracted to Asian guys?

[Arvin29]

Ask me :) im looking for a white girl to marry. here's my email arvinbautista70@yahoo. com . I have a facebook too just add me up there's my email. I have a Skype too. My Skype id is arvin2917. Hope to hear from you soon

[Leetinman70]

Lot of Asian guys are afraid of white girls because they think white girls don't like them. I am more afraid of Asian girls hahaha.

[NicoG]

Just find out their names and start talking on fb. That way is much easier to open up conversations. And also u could do a little bit of research by "stalking" their profiles and pictures

[JessTheMess]

There's Asians at LSU?
(ha..)

[Asker]

there's tons of them lol

[Ihav2fart]

We're everywhere!
Specially in universities!

[princessmess13]

Not any different than a guy of any race

[reptocarl]

Why is it up to him? Ask him out

[Yanoa_Yanza]

Just ask him out, don't wait