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I met him this past August (2014) we're both in college. We were just friends at first he started just sleeping over 3 weeks after we met and we first kissed About a month 1/2 after we met.. We didn't have sex until about 3- 3 1/2 months after me met.. But all the while he was stayed over every night.. His past relationships have really hurt him his ex cheated with his best friend and his last relationship last semester h has told me he still has feelings for her.. He told me he never got any closure because she just left school and didn't come back.. He has told me that he is heartless and has no feelings because he has been hurt so many times.. he has told me on several occasions to just leave him alone and that I deserve a better guy.. And that he is preparing me for my next boyfriend.. but he gets in what I call man periods when he just shuts down and tells me to leave him alone and a few times he will say I'm done this is the last time you will speak to me.. Like most people In friends with benefits I caught feelings for him and I have told him that on several occasions that I do care for him.. The people that do know about him think we're almost in a relationship and not stuck at friends with benefits. I have thought about ending it but I like him and I highly doubt it will phase him because I no he could go out and get another girl the next day.. and i no he isn't sleeping with someone else because I'm with him most of the time except when he is in classes and he spends every night with me. We talk everyday while we're on break mainly in text message and snapchat but we talk everyday on and off.

He said "Seems like all of my friends have sleeping problems haha" Referring to me and other friends. Now, people say (his and my best friend told my sister when she asked who he was.) that he likes me. He acts like he does but then ^^ that has confused me.. Maybe I'm just one of his friends? He's a really, really shy guy. (if that changes anything.)

I met this guy in June through 2 of our best friends and hit it off really soon. He had taken me out on dates and we began sleeping together. We texted often and from what it seemed he was very interested but we took things easy since I was leaving for work in August for 3 months and he was freshly out of a relationship in April. We remained in touch on a weekly basis and now I have been back since late October. We have been sleeping together still and when I go over to his house it is without question I stay the night. Now I am at a point where I have certainly fallen for him and want our relationship to reach a point where it is determined we are exclusive, or more, but am very unsure as to how I deal with this... Do I bring up the talk in person, text message, not at all ( just wait until he does)?