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13 Red Flags That I Took Away With Me

I dated a guy for 2 months and after he dumped me, I had some time to reflect and come up with a list of red flags that I subconsciously threw to the back of my mind when we were dating. I guess we have to learn from our...
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Why would someone all of the sudden become jealous, paranoid or insecure about their partner years in?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I was never paranoid or untrusting of him up until 3 weeks ago. Our communication is fantastic so I told him this. He instantly said "Well, let's see what we can do to fix this."...
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If a woman brings up a past negative dating experience to a guy (who likes her). Does that mean she has little or no romantic interest in him?

I learned long ago if a woman volunteers information about a negative past relationship experience or worse talks about other guys she’s interested in that means I’m friendzoned. Best to cut the conversation off...
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I learned long ago if a woman volunteers information about a negative past relationship experience or worse talks about other guys she’s interested in that means I’m friendzoned. Show More
Yes very bad sign. Especially if she brings it up without context. Time to leave
No. Sometimes girls say this to a guy they are interested in (they just aren’t thinking about the impression it leaves)
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If you were in my shoes, would you still talk to your boyfriends sister after this?

My boyfriends sister is like 35 years old I think. Both my boyfriend and I are 27. So, for the past 3 years I have been really close to his sister. I talked to her about everything, always went to her when it came to...
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How do you cope with you PTSD?

It's been a long time since that fateful night when I was years old and spent the night at a friend of the family's with my younger brother because our baby brother was being born. I never told anyone what happened to me...
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What does it mean when he says he would fully date me but he doesn't want to rush into things?

My friends with benefits I've been hooking up with for 3years almost and I booked a room in a cheap motel. We went half and half on paying. I got us edibles to enjoy. We had sex and although we had taxi fair home he...
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My friends with benefits I've been hooking up with for 3years almost and I booked a room in a cheap motel. We went half and half on paying. I got us edibles to enjoy. We had sex and Show More
Does he have feelings for me?
Is he playing with me?
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How to re-evaluate your love?

My boyfriend and I recently went on a break, about a week ago. There was no malice in the break, just he recently started college and a new job and has a lot of stuff to do with the military rn. So his life is stressful....
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Two months on Badoo, Tinder and Lovoo - The men I met

#1: The potential love of my life This guy is a 29-year-old Israeli-Turkish man who grew up in Germany and the UK. I definitely did not expect for us to have anything in common at first. However, after our first FaceTime...
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Two months on Badoo, Tinder and Lovoo - What I've taken away for myself [online dating]

I spent a lot of time on Badoo, Tinder and Lovoo these past few weeks and want to share my stunning and interesting findings with you. I chatted in German, my mother tongue, at least 95% of the time, but I believe that my...
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How do you deal with a live-in relative who drives you fucking insane?

I allowed my grandparents to move in with me with the stipulation that they watch my kids while I work. It's all rent free, free food living. My way of re-paying them for babysitting I guess. My grandpa is great, my...
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Do I just need to give it time?

so my friends Eric, Dan, and I usually hang out or go out on the weekends. They were friends for a long time I’ve only known the for 2 years I know that when Eric first met me he liked me or at least thought I was cute....
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WAS HE TRYING TO MAKE ME JEALOUS?

So I’ve been in a friends with benefits situation with a guy I knew in the past for a few months now. He is the cousin of my older sisters partner and lived with us for a year in 2016-2017. During that time we had a...
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Why is my mom so mean to me?

My mom seems so miserable in her marriage. Ever since I left home she’s made me feel punished for it. She said I would never lose my baby weight and I have now she makes out I am ill for being healthy. When they have...
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What is your general feeling about justification of an action after the fact?

So as many of you know a 17 year old shot multiple people in self defense. The self defense is talked about by others who agree that it was S. D or not so I won't weigh in on the subject. However, I'd like to ask how...
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Thoughts on this Single Parent I am talking to?

So I have started talking to a very kind gentlemen. He is a a single parent (as am I), his child and mine are both in the same tween age bracket. He told me he shared with his daugther that he is talking to a woman and...
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How do you feel when your partner becomes emotional and talks about relationship problems?

For instance, I called my partner crying this morning because I felt like we’ve been disconnecting over the past two weeks out of fear of drifting apart. Do you think conversations like this can help strengthen a...
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Dating people with BPD, the do's and don'ts #relatioships #bpd #mentalhealth

As a person with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), I noticed a lot of negative comments about BPD now fully disclosure before people say I have no idea what I'm talking about: I have had BPD most of my life, I'm...
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I haven’t told my friends that I’m depressed but it’s pushing them away and I need them. How do I get them to care and is it burdening them to try?

Have you ever reached a point where you don’t know what to say or how to feel? You don’t know what to do going forward. You feel hurt but at the same time you can’t even find a specific reason for it anymore. Explaining...
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Is it bad to keep a horrid message from someone as motivation to stand your ground and maintain your anger?

So I got a very horrid, very snotty, very unnecessary message from the shy guy boyfriend of a girl I was friends with. I still have to see the girl from time to time but I dont talk to her and generally hate her. So...
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When do you meet your bfs parents & live together?

I always wanted settle down early and live with my partner. I got jealous as my step sisters and step brother got to live early with their partner own home in early 20s. I’ll be 23 and I spent past years moving back in...
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