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Why can't right wingers and leftists have debates or conversations without name calling, fighting or blocking each other?
I know that everyone will blame the opposite side for it, but no both sides do that.
Liberals will start calling the right winger a racist, homophobic, sexist facist and the conservative will either get so angry and just leave or call him a cunt or punch him in the face.
Why can't we debate properly?
I'm a conservative, anti gay, anti islam, Christian and I knew a liberal, bisexual, anti trump, athiest, feminist friend on Twitter even toug we disagreed we talked a lot and had lot of debates without actually name calling each other or blocking each other names or cussing. What's wrong? Why can't people just debate until they come to an understanding.

I'm not talking about online dating sites I'm talking about dating a girl from another country only online until you get a chance to meet in real life. I've done it once before so I'll share my story, I know that everything about this seems cringy and weird as hell but please read
On the beginning of scholar year in 2017, my friend showed me a YouTube channel called poppy, just Google it if you don't know her the channel is so weird. So I don't know why but I became a fan and i entered something like a fandom on Twitter and I started texting some of her fans and well, i texted a girl named Victoria and we were friends ever since
She was really shy and actually she was lonely in real life and doesn't have too many friends at school. She was pretty thoug and I really liked talking to her and we almost texted 15 yours a day... anyway so after some time I told her that I love her and I knew she did as well so we started dating.
She was perfect in my books, we didn't even video chat or anything like that but I mean her character. She was everything i ever wanted. She was a little bit shy, she was like cute and was a little bit worried sometimes and tells me about her problems and she was also religious like me but she wasn't like way too religious which was great she was also she was one year older. She was from Poland.
But after some time I had some problems with the fans, they were annoying and kept calling me stuff like homophobic and also were attacking my friend Jake. So after some time I noticed my Ex was changing, she started being like more popular and didn't even want to talk to me, she started being anorexic as well, that cute shy schoolgirl started cussing and saying weird stuff and liking "really weird" tweets. After some time she told me she wants to break up and I was shocked because she was always the one telling me "please promise to never break up"... I I beleive it's this crazy lesbian that made her do it, that woman always hated me