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though this would be an interesting question to ask , trying to stimulate discussion on the issue and not implying every 20 something girl at a bar is an alcoholic but saying there is a % of the girls that age who like to party every weekend that have an issue with alcohol and would be considered an alcoholic in the sense.

we as a society would stereotypically think of an alcoholic as being an older man with no future who is ugly and drinks beer everyday for something to do. we don't think of an alcoholic as being the smart , young , attractive 20 something at the bar on Saturday night. but in reality often appearances are deciving and people can have addiction issues and alcohol is really being marketed to young women these days , go to the liquor store and is isles of product devoted to women , either wine , coolers or flavoured vodka all marketed towards younger women who like to drink. and a lot of these young people don't seem to see the problem with drinking too much alcohol in one night and often are trying to get wasted.

might try and add more but interested in hearing what others have to say

People often say that men who beat on men are either small and weak men or men with "Small Man" Syndrome.

Well that wasn't my case recently when I just walked around a park nearby my neighborhood. There was a woman (with a couple of bruises on her neck) who was walking around and then all of the sudden appeared to be scared for her life as soon as her husband came back with a scowl look on his face. Just as I expected, he started yelling at her for whatever stupid reason.

Oh and the man was definitely NOT your average man. He's a freaking giant who appears stand about 6'7 tall, weighing over 260lbs judging by his appearance. I've seen a lot of other men who were witnessing this man terrifying the woman. The vast majority of these men were considering to jump in the problem but were too hesistant because of this man's intimidating size so they all just walked away.

I know a lot about fitness and diet and how you are supposed to be healthy. That being said, I don't necessarily practice what I preach. I don't exercise and don't have the best diet in the world. It isn't the worst diet either. I've never cared much how my body looks, but I don't have a lot of luck with women and I am wondering if that has something to do with my body. So my question to you, and be honest about this, is whether or not you would automatically rule someone out because of there body if it looked like this

Be honest. If my body is the problem I'd like to know so i can improve it. If I have no idea what the problem is I can't very well fix it :/

Oh and by the way you'll have to remove the spaces in the link. There are three of them I think

Go by that and also this description when answering my question

Skinny, not a lot of muscle. Not a lot of fat either. Strong enough. Most fat stored in thighs and butt. According to doctor, healthy though underweight

And please vote honestly. Everyone has a different preference and different standards. I'm curious to know yours

so as a five foot six and a half African American guy I have seen the worst that women can offer. Women treat me like garbage at face value. And to me it is weird because in some cases the things girls hate about me is things they don't like about themselves (my height and how dark i am for example). based off of the relationships i see they are only happy when they get what they want and what is approved by society. They never get what they need or deal with guys on their actual level. then when what they want doesn't work out they blame men for not making their fantasy come true. they call men sexiest but when given the same opportunities they make the most material choices they can make with men. what that tells me about their leadership skills is that they are along for the ride but only to get what they want. they make men feel guilty for thing that they would never do in their life for example. once in a blue moon i might get a date but a women would never marry me why? because marriage is commitment. tall men take responsibility and date short women all the time but tall or medium sized girls barley date/ marry short men. And they are quiet about this because they get what they want with no responsibility. they use men to advocate their self-esteem and make themselves look better. They can't be committed to things that don't appease other people or themselves on the material realm. even with church girls i get the worst. they judge me based off of what I look like but the problem with that is..."But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” When deciding on men they never look to a mans heart only when he has what she physically requires. today girls have turn dating men into fashion statement were instead of matching soul wavelengths they match outfits that look good.