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I’ve been with my boyfriend “Adam” for two years. I honestly ignored lots of red flags... He’s on dating apps (ie, badoo, tinder, etc), he has also sexually abused me, but all you need to know is that he doesn’t treat me well at all...
Within the 1 year mark, I met an online friend “James” in real life and have hung out with him several times. Ever since we met he’s been wanting a relationship with me. Looking back he has treated me probably better than any other guy and he and I do believe he loved me. Long story short, James got a new girlfriend roughly 2 weeks ago. I got into a huge fight with him which resulted in him blocking me on Snapchat and me blocking him on FB. I broke up with Adam on June 6, and on June 7 James broke up with his girlfriend because she’s falsely accusing him of hitting/attacking her and she’s trying to bring the police and court system involved. She also kicked James out of her car and stranded him for over 10 miles. Despite being together for 2 weeks, it looks like they broke up 4 times and she seems unstable as she has two kids and falsely accused her ex-husband/baby daddy of abusing her. Yesterday she wrote a long post about James basically calling herself out saying that she did indeed make up those false abuse accusations, and James commented saying that she is forgiven and that he's trying to move on. I want to reach out to James and apologize/tell my feelings/ be in relationship. Advice?

Last year my father and I beat my sister's abusive ex boyfriend. It was confirmed by mutual friends and the guy's own mother that he was abusing her. She once showed up with bruises on her arm and blamed it on the gym. Another time she was seen crying and wouldn't tell us what's going on.

I have to admit that he was almost even in the fight with my father... dad was getting him a bit more but he wasn't going down easily until I made that happen. I joined in by having a good angle and delivering a kick from behind. Fight ended right there. While my father isn't the type to further hit someone that's on the ground (unable to get up after what I did), as a finishing I proceeded to spitting in his face and placing my pet spider (a tarantula, what he hates the most) over him.

Good news is my sister was going to break up but it was so hard for her. She did already but she's thinks what I did was more disgusting and worse than what my father did to him. What? I think that POS deserved it all. Is it ever right to take revenge (physically) against an abuser?