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He was honest in telling me that this other girl sent him a photo of her ass. She was "showing him her new tattoo". His words back to her were 'you shouldn't do that because my girlfriend would lynch me for this' or words to that effect anyway.

He was completely honest and upfront and brought this up to me, so I appreciated that he did. But I still wondered, how on earth did they get onto that conversation?

Then, a few months later a girl he used to work with was texting him to try and hook up with him after splitting with her ex. He obviously said no, but again, I wondered... how did they get onto that subject?

he's always secretive with his phone when he's around me, and it makes
me suspicious. He doesn't want me touching it and always goes 'hey' if I do. He takes it everywhere with him, toilet and all.

I guess these small things grind my gears. But when I check my Facebook and still see he's been online at like, 3am after saying goodnight, I begin to wonder a little.

Am I overreacting?

My boyfriend had a huge thing for this other girl sinse before we met but told me she wasn't interested and that i didn't have to worry. From what i coukd tell she was just shy but maybe im wrong. He seems to have this strong bond to her i can't break. (I really hope its not love.) the other day she found out about us and started to cry. She actes like it wad nothing and walked out. He went after her. They were talking for a long time so i decided ti check on them and when i came out i hear him say "im in a relationship right now. But if it doent work i would really like us to try" and he was hugging her close to him. When i asked him what happend later he said he was just talking to her because she was scared and sad and he wanted to 'help' and ' get clarity'. Im starting to wonder if i even had a chance, like maybe i should move on. Should i be worried? Is this bad?