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Okay, so I met this guy years ago at a drama group, we were strictly friends on my terms, he would message me a lot and I tended to keep him well in the friendzone.

However, I did a residential trip where I stayed with a bunch of new people in flats. Coincidently he was there, I was so exited and we instantly became best mates, chatting about who we thought was hot etc. We were so close peopke thought we together. One night it all changed and we hooked up it changed things a lot. I began to see how attractive he was and began to like him.

Since then I saw him again and he said he liked me and I said I like you too. We hooked up again after the trip. however he always talks about other girls. Who's hot. Flirts with others. And he talks to me like a bestmate about girls, even when he said he likes me? He told me im he doesn't want a relationship and likes the idea of being a player.

I really really like him we talk every night like sexual best mates ahah. But I really don't want to be friends with benefits. Is this normal for guys to be so open about love intrests whilst with one? I'm so confused. im scared he just wants a hook up but I know there's more to it.

Ok I know that he was a player and can't take responsibilities sometimes and do bad stuff but I fall in love with him and don't ask me why but I'm so in love with him. He was always telling me that he want a baby and when that happened he become not interested anymore. And before a couple days when i was out with friends he take the money that we've been saving for our unborn baby and leave me a note saying "I'll be out of town for business and I might back after a couple months p. s I borrowed the money " i find it after a back. I have no idea what's he's doing because I can't reach him and he changed his phone number so now it's me and my baby alone. Is he coming back or our marriage is done?