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If someone says ' it was important to the to get to know you. because they know people who met randomly then got married , and they dont like to waste opportunties'.

Does that mean they are critiquing you for marriage material? Im not asking if he wants to marry me. That'd be absurd. Im just asking from what he's saying which feels stressful--is he going to be assessing me from some kind of abstract standard that shouldn't actually aply to us atm.

Because i find this awkward and stressful. We have known each other a year-but barely- we just started dating, i dont think he should even have that as a reason at this point, and im not onterestyed in being vetted. i like him, and id like to get to know him better, but this makes me uncomfortable.

He either meant i make him think of marriage bc its how he thinks, or he thought id like to ear it bc i think that way. both scenerios make me uncomfortable. I dont even know if i want to get to know him under tihs weiord kind of vague pressure. I've never even dated let alone be in a relationship let alone even remotely consuder thinking of marriage in the slighrtst sense. So im just not comfortable , even if he meant it as a euphemism for he's glad were going to get to know each other. bc he could just say that if thats what he meant. just dont feel like being judged unnecessaerily. And if he's alrerady got something in mind, ill be held up against that. I just wanted to ake things one minute- maybe an hour- at a time.

Any suggestions?