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I dated this one guy named "Jim" for two years. It wasn't a very good relationship and looking back I don't know why we were together for so long. After we broke up I ended up having feelings for his friend "Bill." I felt horrible about it, I even tried to pretend I didn't have feelings for him but after a few months we finally started dating. We only dated for a short period of time before we broke up over a stupid fight. A week after we broke up I went to "Jim" asking how I could get "Bill" back and not only did we end up having sex but it was "bills" birthday. "Bill" was a total asshole after our break up & one day I told him what I did even though "Jim" & I agreed to never tell him. No surprise that "Bill" now hates me but is still friends with "Jim." Six months have gone by and unfortunately I'm still not over "Bill." We go to universities a few hours away where he plays football. Even though I think about him everyday I've learned to accept what I did and that we'd never be on good terms again. The thing is "Bill" drunk texted me a few weeks ago and it brought up a lot of old feelings. Sometimes I feel crazy and dumb because we were only together for such a short period of time but I ended up loving him so much. Now one of "Bills" older brothers friend, "Kody", keeps texting me. I only hung out with "Kody" once with "Bill" & his brother and I thought he was cute. I have no idea how "Kody" got my number but we ended up going to a bar together to shoot pool and have a drink and now he's being super flirty with me. What should I do? Why do guys always go after their friends ex's? "Bill" hates me to this day and so does his brother. "Kodys" a really nice guy but what if he's just trying to have sex with me and go bragging to "Bill" about it? What if "Bill" has something to do with this considering I don't know how "kody" got my number and "kody" and I don't share the same friends because he's a few years older than me. Please share your thoughts. Xoxo

Been dating this guy for 6 months and awkwardly enough his birthday is next week. I didn't know what to get him so I decided to have a birthday cake (he loves chocolate and the colour white so the cake is two toned) and a bouquet of birthday balloons delivered to his house on his birthday.

Is this a sweet idea, if your girl or boyfriend done this for you in early stages of your relationship would you think it was cute?