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Girl seems to like me. I think as a friend. But when we are outside she gives me signals, always asks me to dance with her, she hugs me, I always somehow end up holding her bra without even trying and she seems like she doesn't notice. She asked me to tie her high heels when we were out, but they were already tied. She later said she was annoyed and angry at me, but she always came to me to talk to me. We made plans to go to one event she doesn't like, because when I mentioned it she said that she doesn't like it but that she "might go with me if I ask😜". And I asked her and we are going there. I know her one year (we haven't spoken for half of last year because of a fight), and when I first met her she said she always saw me in the pub and why I haven't ever invited her to come drink with me. And when I did invite her, she said after our meeting that she thought I invited her because I like her. And when I invited her second time her friend new about it and send my friend (omg they are going on a second date). But the problem is she replies to my text sometimes imidiately and sometimes in 4-5 hours and sends really small text. Not like good, or thanks more like, 4 word responses. I dont mind that, but I know she is at the phone because she likes my instagram picture during that period. Thats recent but also one other reason I dont think she likes me that way is because when I was with her drunk one night last year, I said my friends said they think she likes me. And she replied with "Why can't I have male friends?". We were planning to go last week out just us two alone but couldnt (I asked her, but later learnt I can't make it), so she suggested tommorow which is valentine day (she said she forgot its tommorow). She also says stuff I dont think girl would say if she had crush on me. I just want to know what other people think, because I really like her as a person and dont want to do anything stupid to ruin our friendship.

You and your girlfriends are having an awsome night out at dinner. Lets say there's 8-10 of you, food, wine, dressed up, it's a great time! You are open to someone approaching, that is, it's not like a meeting where you don't want to deal with interference.

A guy approaches and introduces himself, he's a decent looking guy, he has a chance with anyone. Before he approached, he glanced the table and saw a girl he was interested in! What's his best approach from a women's viewpoint?

Option 1: He approaches and for quite a while, ignores the one he is interested in. By doing so, he establishes his value with the group and builds tension with the one of his interest. Benefit to the guy, he isn't putting his cards on the table, he could still select anyone if he discovers there is a better match! Note, this is what you will hear players describe as best approach!

Option 2: He quickly and pleasantly notes which women he felt interest in. However, he gives lots of attention to everyone by being socially fun and chatting up the group and establishing that he's fun, good guy to be around. Flaw, he takes some mystery out of it and suspense, but as well, you may feel special... or more nervous being called out?