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I have been seeing this guy recently. I've known him for 4 years. He was my previous partners sisters boyfriend when we met so the four of us would hang out a lot. They have been apart for about 3 years now and me and my partner only a little while. Well I was talking to him once about how I never imagined he would want me and he told me about how he used to joke around with my ex and say they should trade girls. I just laughed and said 'but that's his sister!' Do you think this means he's liked me for a while? Or do guys just joke around about trading their women? He would also joke with his ex because she had asked me if I would ever be a surrogate for her (she can't have kids) and he would always joke around about doing the surrogacy by just doing me. His ex is much prettier than I am so it suprised me that he would even say that haha. Maybe he's just a pervert haha.

So in the past 6 months, I moved back in with my BF. I have 2 kids (previous relationship) and commute 2 hours round trip to work M-F. He lives in housing provided by his job and walks to work. I leave before he wakes up, and get home about two hours after he gets off. So, 7-9pm M-F (except Wednesday when I have class) is the only time I have with him awake and I have to cook dinner. We live on a reservation and I'm a teacher on another part of the rez. My district is requiring an additional endorsement, why Im gone Wed. I miss him and want to spend time with him. I rarely get to see him. Problem, the time I am home, he eats and than usually goes to his neighbors. He didn't come home last night, this is probably the 6th time he's spent the night at her house. His phone is off (he always says it dies because they watch YouTube). I went over and knocked several times tonight, no answer. Last weekend I left for 4 days and stayed with family (3 hours away) because I was so upset at all the time he spends with her.

He says I'm overreacting. That she's older and he'd never do anything with her. He also said we are not married and he doesn't have to answer to me. He works with her in the same department, every week, and texts her more than me. She is getting a divorce and he said his friend needs him. He also says I'm being clingy expecting to spend time with him (I'm rarely home). He said he loves me and the fact that I am in his house is enough to prove it. What is going on with him from a guys perspective? He says it's innocent. I admit I'm jealous. He says it's hard to be around my kids, he just needs a break.

Back story: We have been together almost 4 years and this is the 2nd time we've lived together. A year ago he cheated with a co-worker and before that, he was seeing me and another girl behind my back while we were supposed to be exclusive, but broke up (I ended up with an STI because of that situation). He swears he has been faithful, but

My boyfriend and I have been together for going on a year now and though I know it happened quickly I am 7 months pregnant, I also have a little girl from a previous relationship that my boyfriend raises as his own. Recently, his ex came forward with a 3 month old little boy (while she was pregnant she said was not his), claiming it's his baby. She has been extremely nice to me and invited us to her house to see the baby, and we've gone and hung out and spent time with the baby. At first, I thought everything was fine. Here lately though, she's been inviting him to bring my daughter over and hang out while I'm at work. The last time we were there she waited for me to leave the room to tell him that her mom thought they were going to get back together. She has also asked if her mom could babysit my daughter, which I am highly uncomfortable with. She brings up things that happened while they were together. Anytime he walks in to another room, she asks me if its okay before she follows him, to which I respond "why wouldn't it be?" I trust my boyfriend I know he would never leave me for her, I'm just wondering if maybe I should not trust her. She acts like we are friends, but I'm thinking that it's just an act to get him back.