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I just got out of a long-term relationship where we talked about getting married like it was going to happen tomorrow. We had the next 10 years planned out and all of our kids' names picked out. We talked about our future kids like they were real people. We split up. It was a very messy break-up. Now I'm with a guy that treats me right and I'm so in love. We have only been dating for 4 months and I always think about marriage. I've been so used to talking about it for the last 3 years that I can't just shut that off. I wanted to get married by 25 and have kids soon after and I just found out my new guy doesn't even want to get married until 27. My best guy friend said that "things change in 7 years so don't worry" but I really want to get married in the next 5 years. I don't know if I'm crazy or not. Please help.

Even though in the West premarital sex isn't a big deal, it still is in many other regions in the world and I am specifically talking about those nations, so those who are like 'ThIs iS aMeRiCa' click away right fucking now.

Anyway, premarital sex isn't much of a thing in the Indian Subcontinent, which is why some guys try to lure women into having sex with them by promising that he will definitely marry her in the near future so why not just have sex now. But after they get what they need they dump her. I actually think that in such countries where it's becoming an issue it is an amazing plan.

https://www.thehindu.com/news/national/sex-on-false-promise-of-marriage-is-rape-supreme-court/article26831183.ece

Whether or not it counts as rape is debatable, but I firmly believe that it indeed is a crime that at least should require the criminal to pay the victim if not serve jail time, and I'm talking about the bare minimum. In our country we do have a law like that, if a man promises marriage and has sex but later he refuses to marry her after he got what he wanted, she can charge him for rape.

And no we ain't talking about it counting if there was promise of marriage but they break up over something but I literally mean when a guy says he would marry her but when she asks him about it later he is like 'you really thought I'm gonna marry you?'

Can't wait for salty men's comments on this 'WhAt iF FaLsE aCcUsAtIoN' lmao like you gonna disregard betrayal of thousand and probably even millions of women because of one or two false accusations that occur once in a blue moon, wowowowveryverycute

Personally I take relationships very seriously. My boyfriend and I have been together less than 6 months, but we've already planned out our long-term goals. But I'll see people in relationships for 5-10 years with no plans of marriage or girls post online every couple of months about a new guy they claim they want to marry, but inevitably break up

I don't think you have to be together a certain length of time for a relationship to become serious. It depends on how serious you are about it. Yet some people think they're being serious when they're really rushing into things