Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up

Whats wrong with this girl?

there's a crazy girl that 1 year ago randomly added an old friend of mine talked and directly wanted to hook up while they didn't even know eachother. This old friend said he also tried to hook me up while i didn't want...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he not want to have sex with me?

So the first time this guy I am seeing and I hooked up he was way drunk and things didn't go as planned. He apologized and kept saying how much he liked me and wanted me and I was totally ok with it no judges nothing, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when he says “It’s not about what I want?

Hi all. So a few years ago I had like a friends with benefits relationship with an older guy. He was at one point my boss, but we didn’t do anything until after we both had left that company. Well we were hooking up for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think he hooked up with someone while we were on a break from each other?

Dated this guy, broke up but still kept in contact with the knowledge that we still wanted to date each other but fix some things. He started to act suspicious like he was sleeping with someone. His behavior was just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was he just an asshole?

Guy I was dating for 3m ended up not wanting a relationship. I felt like he deceived me because I told him from the start that I didn’t want a friends with benefits situation and later told him I had a problem with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why don't people wanna go out with me?

I don't understand, I really don't. I don't think I'm like ugly or anything, I mean maybe but I don't think so? Anyways, I'm 18, a virgin, struggling with my sexuality, * & don't know what to do. I use like 4 dating...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, Why do women on dating sites never fill out a profile or list all the negatives they don't want in a guy?

Is this why I go wrong in trying to get women to message me back, besides the obvious of being ugly? I make the effort to write a paragraph about me and my interests etc. yet so many women simply put negatives or...

Futureboy

Xper 5 Age: 37

Does it seem he’s trying to just hook up?

We been talking for a little while due to restrictions and our shedules there’s nothing to really do so we decided to plan a drive and grab food date he asked me what I want to do i said I don’t mind he said meet u,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are your rules for friends with benefits situations?

This is not to praise or condemn anyone who choose to be in this situation. 1. Do you actually want more? 2. Do you ask questions like “so how many other people do you talk to?” 3. What rules did u guys make? If...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We have been dating, had a fight, didn't talk for a week, and then she told me all of this. What do I do? Am I right to be a bit angry?

Been dating about 5-6 months. Exclusive, but not official. Recently had a fight, where she left, and we took a week off from seeing each other, but made up. I went over there the other day, and we talked. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We had a fight, didn't see each other for a week, and then she told me this? What do I do here?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What does it mean when a guy tells you, you don’t have pride, you have options?

I was talking to this guy about another guy who wanted me to come over and hook up with him pretty much and I told him, I have a lot of pride for not wanting to come over and hook up with him. And the guy said you don’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

What does it mean when a guy tells you that he want you?

I’ve know this guy for years and we have a little flirtatious friendship—cute flirty texting— but nothing more. Today I asked him if I could hook him up a coworker and he responded by saying, “Naw, I want you”. I know...

LooLoo1986

Xper 4 Age: 28

Friends with benefits makes it seem like more at times?

I've known this guy for over 3 years. We would hook up frequently when he still lived reasonably close and now we hook up when he visits. Recently he has been talking about how he misses me and how "fun" I am and he keeps...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I tell a girl her lover cheated?

I was seeing someone and we slept together and in bed he told me had a girlfriend and I freaked out and he told me it was a joke and he laughed it off. We can see each other’s locations but after we hooked up he distanced...

Cattyshack

Xper 3 Age: 25

Was she ever interested in the first place or was making an excuse?

I used to hook up with this girl everything was fine, she would drive up an hour once a week to come see me and we would have a fun time together. until one day she stopped coming to see me. I messaged her about it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does it sound like he’s trying to hook up or genuinely wants to watch a movie and drink?

this guy I’m into wanted to come over and watch a movie with cozy blankets and popcorn while drinking/getting drunk. And usually that leads to hooking up if drinking is involved. But then again, I don't know if guys...

Anonymous

(25-29)