What are your rules for friends with benefits situations?

[Anonymous]

This is not to praise or condemn anyone who choose to be in this situation.
1. Do you actually want more?
2. Do you ask questions like “so how many other people do you talk to?”
3. What rules did u guys make? If any.
As for me, I’m highly thinking of being in a friends with benefits with this guy I hooked up with in college. 1. We’re both single. 2. I don’t want a relationship (got out one months ago. Don’t want the stress of a relationship right now) 3. I know him so it’s not a new guy I gotta get use to.

[ValleyofDrakes]

What rules?

You're friends... With benefits.

Enjoy your benefits and your friendship. That's all you have to do.

[Asker]

Has it ever gotten messy or crazy for u?

[ValleyofDrakes]

No. It's all good until one of you gets into a relationship. Then you stop.

There's literally no problem.

You gotta fuck somebody. If they want that same thing from you. Good. You're on the same page.

[Asker]

Did u tell them you were in a relationship now or just stop answering their texts/calls?

[ValleyofDrakes]

Wtf would I treat them so horribly? They're my friend. If I got in a relationship, I'd let them know.

[Asker]

Lol ok cool. That’s nice of you lol

[ValleyofDrakes]

I don't think it's particularly nice to do what you should do, but I think it's particularly rude to stop talking to someone for no reason.

I don't deserve an award for being human.

[Dinklex3]

1. I don't want more. No point in my situation
2. I don't care, don't know, & don't ask. I only care about myself and the attention he is giving me.
3. We didn't make any rules 🤔
We ended up becoming close friends though.

[scott04sa22]

The rules with friends with benefits are between the both of you. Both of you make the rules.

Also enjoy the benefits because Friends with benefits don't happen too often.