Does it sound like he’s trying to hook up or genuinely wants to watch a movie and drink?

[Anonymous]

this guy I’m into wanted to come over and watch a movie with cozy blankets and popcorn while drinking/getting drunk. And usually that leads to hooking up if drinking is involved. But then again, I don't know if guys genuinely just enjoy watching movies and not doing anything sexual. So then I kind of got drunk and texted him at like 1am asking what his intentions are with coming over to drink and watch a movie, are you really trying to watch a movie, or watch a “movie.” And he responded when he woke up and was said, he definitely was just trying to watch something and drink with the skeleton emoji and it’s hard to tell if he was being genuine or he wanted to hook up still.. like why didn’t he just say, oh my intention is to watch a movie or my intention is to hook up while watching the movie I don't know something. And then after I opened his snap, I didn’t really know what to say, so I just left it on read. And then 2 hours later he changed his mind.. said he didn't really feel comfortable now... like now? So I just said why, you said you wanted and he never responded and unfriend me.

[Anonymous]

I'm only guessing here, but I could see this if it were me possibly. He may not have had any "intention", just go with the flow. Watch a movie, if something happened it happened and if not, then not. A lot of guys will just go with the flow and how comfortable she is at the time (and what she does or doesn't do). As far as ghosting you know (sort of), he said he wasn't comfortable now, to me I think you questioning his intentions was a complete turn off for him. You already question his motives and him you know? Like I get why you do, but can you see how that's a turn off for him? It's like you already don't trust him you know? So why go through with it and put himself through it? Now the other possibility is he was looking for sex and he sees this isn't going to happen likely, but I don't think that's the case because he said he wasn't comfortable with it anymore. I think it was the first thing I said. That's how I'd feel if it were me.

[Asker]

I don’t understand why it would be a turn off, i know him but don’t know him enough to know what kind of guy he is... and there was no reason to unfriend me and act as if he doesn’t know me.. I’ve had bad experience with guys wanting to watch a movie, it always ends up me hooking up with them, and them not talking to me again and I just wasn't sure it’d be like that with him... and why a movie and at my place with alcohol, i think I had a good reason to question him and sort of not trust him. Either way, I think it could’ve been a good thing and now it’s kind of ruined.

[Nephilim000]

Guys are pretty much 99 percent of the time trying to hook up. Ok yeah they might like movies. But they like hooking up more. I mean it's a win win. At the very least you get a fun night with a movie and snacks. But if you get sex then score.

[nyc1989]

Sounds like he just wanted to really just chill and have a good time and just go with the flow. Maybe when you asked him y and left him on read he probably feels like you was interested in him so he moved on.

[TallAnon]

Both. He hoped to hook up, but alternatively it would still be a nice evening. You left him on read and he went "well fuck, she hates me for suggesting it, nevermind then".

[Asker]

I can understand that, but unfriending me? That confuses me so much

[TallAnon]

I assume his girlfriend was on to something

[Asker]

I’m pretty sure he doesn’t have one..

[TallAnon]

That's what they all say though..

[I-have-a-biscuit]

He's gonna drink all your tap water

[syskerully]

Yeah he wants to fuck you

[Iamcoming]

He want do activity