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I met this really cool guy over the summer and we've gotten really close since the end of August. We are on the verge of making our relationship official and becoming public. Over the weekend I was at a town fair and I needed to use the restroom, so I looked for the nearest bathroom I could find. As I asked the front desk if I could use their bathroom, I realized that his ex-girlfriend was working at the front desk. I went to the bathroom she directed me to and left.

I thought I was fine, because she doesn't know who I am and has never seen me before. Hours later I get a friend request on Face book from her. How did she find my Face book page? This girl just sought me out on the Internet and friend requested me. I know its fairly normal for people to do this now a days, but it's kinda creepy when someone you don't know and have never had a conversation with sees you and person and sends you a Face book friend request hours later. But I'm not dumb enough to accept a friend request from his ex girlfriend.

All of a sudden I start getting messages in my Face book in-box from her (Lord knows how with my crazy ass privacy settings) saying: "You looked pretty freaked out when you saw me today. I'm not that scary." I have not responded to her at all. I'm assuming she wants to talk to me so she can bite my head off. I don't see any reason for me and her to have a discussion. She probably doesn't have anything nice to say to me anyway.

In the beginning as it was happening I chose not to tell him about it, but now I think he needs to know. Part of the reason I chose not to talk to her is out of respect for him. Would he want me having conversations with his ex-girlfriend about him? No, and I wouldn't want him having conversations with my ex-boyfriend about me! Besides that I didn't want to entertain the drama. There is no other reason for her to reach out to me except that she wants to talk to me about him. So, in that case I think he

So , I ve been talking to and hanging with this guy I like for a year and some ... He's never really asked to be my boyfriend or make it official. I have but he didn't give me a direct Yes. Anyways, He says he likes me, he said he loved me once or twice and I feel the same way. However , his dating ideas include beach in the night or coming over and watching movies with him which I dont find romantic or even making an effort. Once, I mentioned going for icecream with him and he has only made time at 8 or 9 in the night which I find late and not my scene. Whenever I want to do day dates he is always tied up with work.
Tonight , we got into an argument because he invited me to spend the day with him on Saturday which would 've involved fixing his car, going fishing with his cousin and him and goin beach (his cousin didn't even come). I told him I couldnt make it because I had a family friend stopping by that needed my help. He mentioned that tonight , among other things. He said I was a fraud , that I set him up too many times and he was not going to let me fool him anymore. He also said that the reason he likes me is not because of my ironic sexy self because he couldnt rate me and how he found my mother sexually attractive , that she has class, she is a freak, b*** and everything and am no way close and she is a real f***king woman.
He also said that he cannot take me seriously and I am a baby throwing a tantrum. So I told him that we are over, I cannot tolerate him even as a friend and I won't be disrespected any more and that he should lose my number. He snapped back and told me that am an emotional girl and that I should try not to break anything but I blocked him unblocked him to which he texted he was sorry and its all me that cause this and he didn't hate me but I hated him but then I just blocked him back. So is this what he has in his head or its just him being angry? Should I take him back?