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When I'm by myself i feel confident I my own skin. Sometimes (not every time) i go out with my roommate I noticed just how much better she gets treated. Im not dumb- she has an exotic universally pretty look. She gets Free drinks, random discounts, strangers (often men) starting conversations offering to help on literally anything, doors always held open, people inviting her to random parties or social groups. I've mentioned it to her, but she's denied that she gets treated better because she's pretty as she believes the world is just nice. One time she says that she "works for it" despite rarely going to the gym and watching hours of TV everyday. She has money to buy new clothes/makeup and does not have to work while in school.

Its not her fault and I know I'm jealous, but its really frustrating when you're living life as a single person hoping someone wants to get to know your personality. In reality you're only noticed as the less attractive friend. any guy either of us meets would rather ask her out than me since he assumes we are both single and she's prettier. For some reason, she'll hang out with guys she just met and then complains when he started making a move or telling her he is interested in dating. What makes me jealous is that she is married (although long distance) but conveniently gives no indication to anyone.

When I invite her to hang out with my guy friends, they fall into the similar trap where they become super attentive to her needs for literally no reason. I have a normal to bubbly confident personality myself but it gets frustrating when even the people I date refer to her as the pretty friend or attractive roommate.
I know my life isn't hard because of this- there's so much worse out there. I am like a 5 myself so solid average- I just wanted to get it off my chest and maybe see if anyone else can relate. Thanks!

My boyfriend was on the phone for around 3hours and he told me that there is a girl he was talking too and she was teaching him how to cook. He said he was also talking on the phone with one of his professor via video call. Yesterday, we were talking on the phone for an hour or so, then he told me he would call me back. I call him and he was on the phone. He was on the phone for around 2-3hours and told me someone was teaching him how to cook. Then he said he was talking to many people at the same time. But why didn’t he cut the person he was talking too and take my call and ask me to wait. The thing is my boyfriend likes joking and making me jealous, so I don’t understand whether I should trust him or not. I’m very confused. My family asked me not to respond his text message or phone call so fast, to wait at least for hours before getting back to him.