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I usually refrain from these types of post but this woman is infuriating me!
I’m 10 years older than my partner and we’ve been together for 2 years. I looked in his emails and his ex has been emailing long lengthy life story updates to him! They were unread and in spam. I didn’t read them as they were very long whiney messages and they looked boring but one started with “you’re not making this easy for me when you don’t reply” I mean wtf? How attempting to gain control is that? They broke up in 2014 and were only together 9 months they briefly met back up a year before we got together but things had changed and it was awkward apparently.
I told him next time she emails to let me know and I will reply. She knows what he’s doing as she mentioned he’d moved to a different city so she knows he’s with me. I would leave it but she’s relentless I mean she’s emailed 1/2 times a month for years. I just find it very disrespectful and she should think about how she would feel if she was in a relationship and his ex was doing this? What makes her think her needy, unstable ass is better than mine? Should I leave it or message her because she will never stop!

I was inspired by a post recently. Do you find this phrase overused?

If your boyfriend/girlfriend is making you happy, then I'm happy. If they make you happy that's all that counts''

If you ask what they like about their child's partner, they can't think of anything (ex: they are humble, they are family oriented, they are devoted believers, etc... any good trait) other than their child being happy. Making someone happy is only part of the relationship. Happiness doesn't provide you food. That's not all to it. You're still responsible for your own happiness.