My Ex fucked my best friend who is also my business partner?

[Doc1987]

This girl who I dated for 4 months.. She was a girl I had been trying to date for years (i really liked her). She suddenly contacted me and we started dating. I had to break up with her because she told me she didn't believe I wanted to be with her even though I tried to show her this wasn't true. In the end I didn't want to hold her with me if she was unsure and unhappy so I had to let her go (obviously I didn't want to do this) . We decided to "stay friends". I saw how she started to get along with my best friend (who is also my business partner) and one night I asked her to please dont proceed with him to anything more. I told my other friends about my fear of her making a move, and somehow she heard about this. She said that because I spoke with my other friends I made her look as a slut (even though my other friends told me that they also saw something was going on). She then again said that since I made her look like a slut then she didn't care anymore about me, and finally, 6 weeks after our break up, she slept with my best friend. :( Now he wants to date her and I dont know what to do since there is also a business involved, which SHE was completely aware of... My friend tried to resist her but she keot throwing herself at him until he couldnt any more. I am more than heartbroken here. I am so lost I feel like a ghost What do I do? I feel I need to end the friendship and the business Do girls that break up friendship regret it?

[roxbby]

I have a feeling that she tried to make an excuse to leave you by saying that she did not believe you loved her. Usually, when you love someone, you convince yourself in every way that they love you and that you are overthinking. ESPECIALLY when you talk about it with your partner, you usually do it with the purpose of mending the relationship to stay. However, she seemed like she was eager to leave and knew where she was going: your best friend.

She seems to be the type of person who resembles a butterfly: just one person to the next. She seems like she just loses and gains interest very easily, and it sounds like a part of her unstable character. She does not seem like the type of person you would want to have a serious relationship with. And no, it is not because you are not good enough. It is because some people love the adrenaline rush of a relationship, or they are so immature to love the idea of someone else and not recognize it is an actual person, not an actual idea. There are other possible reasons, but there is no purpose to really talk about them.

I think you should completely ditch your friend and her in a manner of ignoring their existence except for when you particularly NEED to talk to them. My dad went through a similar situation: he got cheated on by his wife by multiple men in a period of five years, and right after the divorce, she was with my dad's friend at work. He ditched that friend and all of the friends who had not informed him about this. Some people just have absolutely no mercy for others. But do not worry: at least you did not waste another month on her. She is not worth it!

[Doc1987]

That makes soo much sense!! Thankyou

[kyleelyn199723]

Drop your friend out of your business. Yep I said it. You need to hold your friend accountable. It takes two to tango and clearly he didn’t respect you enough to not double dip into your sloppy seconds.

[Doc1987]

I think you are right. But originally its his business. Im just an investor. Only way i can recover my money is to stay with him. I kind of also want to see if she has the guts to come in the store and show her face.

[kyleelyn199723]

I think at this point you should just pick up your dignity and leave.

[R4zor]

She was a slut, She is a slut,
Move on this girl will give you nothing but pain and misery
I don't understand why some men tolerate these bitches
not your friends fault although he could do better but she is nothing but trouble move!!!

[hahahmm]

Well you can't expect her to act like she owes you something after just 4 months of dating & you dumped her. Your best friend isn't really your friend or he wouldn't be messing with your ex without your blessings. Beware.

[cryscrys1]

Damn boi
Your ex and your business partner are both sluts
Is he having fun with her too or he loves her?
I think best way is to just let it be ! She seems abnormal to me so I doubt the relationship will last

[Doc1987]

Thank you! It really helps to read your words.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t fool with either of them

[In_Trance]

Tldr