Started fucking my fiances best friend?

[boredwoman]

I'm 24 I've only had sex with one man, my fiance.. until I decided to fuck his best friend, we have always been flirty with each other, so we did it a few times, but he never lasted more than 2 minutes, I barely have to touch him.. so it had the excitement I was looking for but not much pleasure for me. He told me I'm cute and sexy and that I'm really tight. Last time we had sex though he told me he doesn't know what it is about me because he had sex the other day for hours but with me it's 2 minutes tops. And now he won't stop telling me about fucking other women. He is my good friend, we hang out with him everyday and I don't want him to think I just want him all the time because honestly he was a little disappointing in the sac, to say the least. Why is he telling me about other women and how can we be normal friends again?

[Anonymous]

You can't go back to being normal friends, you burned that bridge real good. I think it's alarming that you aren't talking at all about feeling bad, remorseful, for what you've done. I think you should keep some distance between you and your 'friend'. Focus on your relationship and pleasing your husband, maybe you wouldn't be in this situation if you'd done that from the get go. You're wrecking your OWN home, nice work. This may sound harsh, but it's the damn truth and I've no pity for cheaters.

[boredwoman]

I dont feel bad for him, he had it coming for 10 years

[Opinion Owner]

Had it coming for 10 years? Then why on earth are you still married to him?

[AchingSoul24]

You seem more concerned about becoming "normal" friends with him than you are about cheating on your fiance. You should take care of Problem A (cheating) before problem B (getting back to normal terms with fiance's friend.) Because Problem A is much bigger and more of an issue than B. Loyalty and honesty are the most important things in a relationship... once those are taken care of you can worry about everything else.

[boredwoman]

Trust me he had it coming

[AchingSoul24]

But why? Is he bad to you? Is he unfaithful, a bad person? Why do you think he deserves you cheating on him? Genuinely want to know...

[MildlyOriginal]

You can't even take responsibility for being a shitty person, you have to hide behind some idea that he "had it coming". No person has that coming. A break up- that's something a person can have coming. Getting cheated on isn't something you have coming, it's just your significant other being a selfish asshole.

[Seriousness]

i absolutely agree. :)

[PinkAcid]

He's telling you about other women to prove he isn't so quick in bed with everyone. Tell him you just want to be friends and tell your fiance what you've done, he deserves to know you betrayed him with his best friend before he marries you

[DanteSparda]

I'd repeat what decemberblue said

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[cavmanier]

Tell your fiance so he can have the opportunity to leave you. I would.

[icantwait]

am I the only one that finds this a bit fucked up?

No you can't go back to normal friendship now and he's telling you about other women to validate himself.

Smh...

[DodgersGM]

Tell your fiancé and keep fucking the two-minute man.

I'm sure your fiancé will let you and the friend go, and y'all can have each other.

[rodcassidy]

I think you must be amazing or he is not telling you the truth. Hmmm. I vote amazing

[decemberxblue]

These hoes ain't loyal, for the 10384203842x

[greycadillacs]

No, you can't go back to being normal friends.

[Anonymous]

What you did was wrong.

[Sully1310]

Thats fucked you're a slutty bitch