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It starts off innocently enough: a boy-crazy 14-year-old freshman in 1973 is crushing on a 23-year-old man at school. It seems that the gentleman is interested in Susie too and despite the disparity in age, she falls for his charms, mostly due to his exchange student allure & suave accent. In the 1970's age disparity wasn't as big of a deal as it is now. As the film progresses, it becomes clear that another gentleman is also interested in the nubile teen. His name is Mr. Harvey & he lives in Susie's neighborhood. Unlike the man from school, Mr. Harvey puts in a tremendous amount of effort in an attempt to win the love of Susie Salmon. He builds her an amazing underground clubhouse, complete with all the stuff young people from that era loved. He had beverages such as Coca Cola that he selflessly shared with Susie as they hung out. It became clear that Mr. Harvey was a bit awkward around members of the opposite sex. His nervousness around Susie Salmon was evident & she picked up on that. Girls prefer a man with confidence. I also feel that maybe she was turned off because the Coke that Mr. Harvey gave her in his clubhouse was warm. I didn't see an ice-filled cooler in the clubhouse anywhere. So I think these factors all led to Susie Salmon losing her patience, which erupted in a childish display of rudeness. Mr. Harvey only had one rule in the clubhouse: Be polite. Susie Salmon broke that rule & the series of events that followed spiraled into one great, big, unfortunate chain reaction. Susie ended up losing her life but later had some ghostly moments.

Are there bad people in The Lovely Bones? True, Susie Salmon came off as being a little narcissistic and immature but she was only 14 years old! Yes, Mr. Harvey was socially awkward and made some questionable choices in life but he had a deep desire to be loved and respected. Plus, he was a taxpayer and a valuable contributor to society.

If you had to pick a side, which would it be?

I used to be proud of myself for having low standards, but when I see women with the type of men I want or going after what I like I get insanely jealous. Like for example, I was going to date this guy who was in and out of homelessness, but then he told me he wasn't into black women and just wanted a quick one night stand after I fucking offered to PayPal him some money so he could get food, and all the women he wanted didn't want him because he was nerdy and broke. I tried this with another guy, he was 6 years older than me, a dropout, and worked at a fast food place and I planned on being the one who makes all the money, and rebuild his credit so he didn't have to work in the future, but he started telling me strange thoughts he had about very young girls and his se%xual thoughts about his family members and other scary sh! t. Sometimes I feel lucky that we didn't meet. I think he would of ra%ped me or at least think about it.

I don't want to be seen as shallow and superficial and I feel like I am too ugly, fat, to go for the guys I want so I actively go for broke, self-hating guys and then things never work out.