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Let's say you are currently homeless and you meet a beautiful woman who is in college, has a good paying job and is very kind and talkative. She offers a room for you in her house but you later find out she texts an old friend who's male and is smarter and has more money than you. Would you still date her?

What's the issue? I see so many guys on here complaining about paying for a womans dinner on a date.

Meaning this was a standard you set, not her.

I had a guy one time who was job hunting and about to secure a really well paying job in the oil and gas sector.

But came down to it during during a late night talk that he needed to know how much I make so he can rest assured that he made more or would have to keep pushing on until he made more.

Firstly, I’m not keen on discussing such things with anyone outside of my financial advisor or person I’m filing joint tax returns with and sharing ownership in property.

We, at the time we’re getting serious, so I didn’t give him a dollar amount but explained that he would make more than me on a monthly basis before taxes. And that I work 12 months and he works 6-8 months at most.

He will be on my healthcare and I will have to find him insurance to get into the job site.

My point was that it doesn’t matter that i might make more. Together, our varying types of income and health benefits compliment each other. We both had lots to gain from the flow of money and security our jobs together combined, of an aged properly.

He wasn't having that, I think I finally just let him have his pride in that he makes more than me a month even if he only works one month out of the year, he made more that month.

Every other man I’ve dated does make more than me and they know it.

Would it really bother your woman made more than you? If so, why?