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What if u meet a good man who might be the right husband for you, but his appearance is not appealing AT ALL.
i have been through the situation when I'VE never been attracted to them physically (serious men who want to marry me) they like me n found me ATTRACTIVE. Unfortunately, the mutual attraction doesn't exist. It is always the one-sided attraction.

How can I marry a man who is good but not ATTRACTIVE?
How can I enjoy having sex with him?
How can I enjoy hugging, touching, kissing him?
And y'all know how important the sexual life is in a married couple!
I can't even imagine myself losing my virginity by a man who does not attract me?

My mom is against this. She says that sex is not that important (in marriage) so you don't have to care about his appearance since he's a good man that can protect and respect you n his kids. My mon n I always argue on this :/
Attraction is not EVERY THING there're more important things that should be taken into consideration when it comes to marriage. But ATTRACTION plays a BIIIIIG role too so that the marriage can be successful

What do you think guys have you ever been into this situation before?
have you ever got married to someone you were not physically attracted to, but then attracted you after marriage?

There is this guy that I like. We've never had a conversation but we had a few classes together and i saw him looking at me a couple of times. Im kind of pretty and so he could have just stared just because I don't know. He never talked to me even when i was standing next to him talking to some of his friends next to him. There were two times in class where his friend said something funny and i turned to look at his friend and ended up making eye contact with him and we looked at each other and smiled/laughed until i would shy away and break eye contact. For some time (couple days) i was sure he liked me i don't know if i was making things up in my head or something but i just got the feeling. The more i thought about it the more i doubted my judgement and ended up deciding that he didn't like me. I never talked to him because i was scared that he wouldn't answer or something. He's quiet but confident. He doesn't really talk to many people and does not participate in class but not because he's insecure or shy. He's also kind of popular. The guy's not duchy, he's pretty nice and cute. He never sent a request to follow me on insta so I took it that he wasn't interested. I still don't think he likes me but im still low-key hopeful. I really like him. Im not getting into why i like him but just know its not purely physical attraction, lets just say he intrigues me. Anyway i am 16 an the is too. Oh by the way, his friend liked me (and about 3 other girls lol) and i didn't like him back so i kindly told him that i wasn't interested. I thought he didn't show interest because of bro code but I don't think they're super close friends, i think they're more class friends cus they don't hang out after school or at lunch. Anywayyyy, am i correct? does he not like me?

There's this guy I've been hanging out with who's pretty awesome and with whom I feel very comfortable being myself around. It's so easy to be with him and talk about anything and everything. Joke around or talk about serious issues, doesn't matter, time just flies everytime we see. Lately I've come to realize he's really into me. And we do have this strange chemistry, I give him that. But the thing is... I don't find him physically very attractive. So even though there might be the kind of mental connection there I'd like to have with a boyfriend the thing is.. where he also feels the physical/sexual attraction towards me, for me it's missing so I'm not sure if I should try to stay friends with him or go for it and see if it could work out as something more... I don't know what to do.. What do you think?