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Recently my ex and I got into contact. At first she was pretty flirty and was really happy we reconnected.

I took it as a sign she still had feelings, so I asked her if we could try to rebuild our relationship and she said no because of some things I said during our breakup. She said later she lost interest in me. I told her that I didn't want to be friends and it'd be too difficult. She said she understood.

I sent her a message explaining why I said what I did during the breakup, and asked for her to reconsider and she could reach me if she changed her mind.

She '❤️' the message. But said nothing. It's been a week. My friends say she's been giving off mixed signals and she probably doesn't know what she wants and is scared. But she also never took ownership of what she did in our relationship either.

She had started following my social media accounts when we got back together, and she is still following them. Liking posts, and watching my stories.

My friends say that's a good sign, and she may just need time to process what I said and sort out what she wants.

What do you think?

Would you like if your friend asked you how you were doing after a breakup?

My female friend/colleague had a breakup last month. She didn't tell me about it but considering her behaviour is back to normal and she's fun to talk again, it's obvious that she is no longer in a relationship. She changed when she was in a relationship and I distanced myself. I was a bit turned off about it because I thought we were friends so she should have told me. Like she told me about this guy when she met him but not when they got into a relationship. And I personally don't want to talk about her personal life anymore tbh because I am afraid that I'll fall for her so I wanna keep my distance. But I am still worried about her. What should I do? Should I talk to her about it? Or should I leave it?