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So me and my boyfriend always talk on the phone every night and sometimes we argue about little things.. big things..
Then today, we got into an argument again
This was our conversation:
Him - so are we still going to watch movie with your friend and her boyfriend this week?
Me - yeah i think so
Him - i haven't seen him for a while. I wanna wear a tight shirt so he can see that I've been training hard and gotten bigger than before
Me - why u showing off for?
Him - what? Why do u think im training hard nowadays? I want to show everyone my body. To boost my confidence. Oh and one more thing, dont ever tell me what to wear again. You did that last time and it pissed me off. Dont control me.
Me - how am i controlling you? I only asked why u wearing better clothes when people we know are coming with us and u dont dress up when only us are going out
Him - coz we have been together for over a year. I dressed up in the beginning of our relationship and now we are used to each other. And i dont wanna look like a homeless person infront of your friends and other people we know. I dont want to embarrass you infront of them. Dont u get it?
Me - i just thought that you wanted to impress my friends and not me
Him - its not about impressing.. its different. And dont ever make me feel insecure around you again. Because if i feel insecure around you, i dont wanna be with you anymore. You can't control me and tell me what to wear, how to look. I wanna do my own thing. Let me do my own thing. If i was to pick gym or you, i would pick gym. I would pick my body obviously. Thats how it is.
Me - so im your last priority? You put your hobby infront of me
Him - its not a hobby.. its a passion. I love the gym. You can't make me quit it. Im not saying you're my last priority or putting it infront of you. Im just telling you its my passion
Should i be hurt and upset by this?
I was offended and hurt
I started crying and then he started to soften up abit
Does this mean he doesn't care about me?

It can be anyone from a lover to a friend or even family member.

I once stumbled upon a disgusting story of a younger brother asking for forgiveness for having an affair for a couple months with his brother's fiancee. The poster wrote an update 3 years later and supposedly the brothers are on good terms again. The girl is off course out of the picture.

I've always wonder how can the someone you trust hurt betray in such a horrible way but still claim to love and care about you, even after what they did. That means ironic to me and a weird way of showing love to a someone closed to you.