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I came NY for summer vacation and met a guy in a club few days ago.
Although I have been seeing someone in my hometown, I have to admit that I'm quite like him.
We have great time in the club. He wants to take me home but I don't want to have one-night-stand so I refused.
>>Although later he said he didn't mean to have sex with me, but I think he's lieing, right?
I thought guys goes to a club cause they want to get laid, don't they?

And he keep texting me and ask me out (cuz he's a traveler too and he's going home in 3 days after the day we met). We had dinner and took a long walk on the other night, it was really great. Since we r living so far away and he said he wants to spend more time with me, I let him to stay overnight in my place. We share the bed but didn't make out.

Before he left here, he told me that "That night in the club, I was tipsy. You are hot and I wanted to take u home. But now I know how great a person u r. I got lots of respect to u. U are a strong woman"
>>What's that mean if a man said he 'respect' u? It means like 'ok~we are friend now? I won't like u anymore' or what? I don't get it!

He gave his email and told me to email him anytime.
>>Cuz he said he didn't have IG or FB, is that normal? Or he just don't want me to have it?
I mailed him, but he didn't reply.
>>should I mail again? Does he want to date me or not?
If I keep mail him, will he think I'm chasing him around like a fool?
I'm so confused!!!
Please help me!!

I've been seeing this man for a month and he is 20 years older. I'm getting some mixed signals and can't tell if he just doesn't want to have an official relationship, or if he's afraid that I would say no because of our age differences.

We've had sex already. Excellent sex. We don't text or call each other constantly (we're both busy), but he does make contacts daily to see how I'm doing and talk about his days. He talks about himself, his family, and his past with me. He cooks for me and takes care of me well when we are together (always checking to make sure I'm feeling alright). If someone calls when we're together, he lets me know who that is (except when it's his ex-wife, then he doesn't say anything). He'd leave me in his house sleeping while he goes out to run errand for like 2hrs.

He has mentioned a few times that he's old and I'd tell him that he's not "that old". He became quite uncomfortable one time when he asked me out of nowhere, "So how do you like hanging out with an old guy (him)?" I told him "it's good" and he started smiling and said he's young at heart and physically well, so he's younger than his age.

I get hit on a lot on the streets. I don't talk about that except when they're really crazy/stupid ones, he'd become quiet (appear upset) and recently he started telling me how people flirt with him or how popular he was when he's young as if he's telling me he's desirable.

He has told me we're more than just physical, but never went further to define what we really are. Recently when we're in bed after sex, he said he's very physical, and I teased him saying "Yea I know, you're just all about physical." And he said, "No, it's mental too." And I said, "like how's so?" He got uncomfortable, paused for a second, and tried to joke about it, "I'm in your head". And I said that only meant it's mental for me, not him. And he just said, "It's mental for me too. You crazy person."
So I'm confused. Does he just want something causal, or more?